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If you’ve been watching “American Idol” this season, then you know Danny Gokey is the soulful singer whose wife Sophia died from post-surgical complications only four weeks before he auditioned for the show. You also know that Sophia was born with a heart defect and had previously undergone two other heart surgeries. What you might not know is that Gokey has founded a charity in her name called Sophia’s Heart Foundation (SHF).
The Foundation offers four programs:
The Discovery World museum in Milwaukee donated $1 to SHF for every ticket purchased this weekend. Also, all Danny Gokey fans can purchase Danny Gear or “I love Danny Gokey” T-shirts from Café Press, and 10% of the sale will go to SHF.
The pain of losing a loved one is so intense. They say that the Divine never gives us more than we can bear, but I have never seen that guarantee in writing within any sacred text. The New Testament (First Corinthians 10:13) promises that we will be able to bear temptation, but that is different from raw, agonizing grief. I think grief can break people. War can break people. Trauma can break people. Betrayal can break people. We are each challenged to find the resilience to bounce back from life's most painful events as best as we can.
I think it is wonderful that Danny Gokey is using his talent and his new celebrity to make a difference for children in the name of his late wife, and I fully support his efforts to turn a family tragedy into something positive for the whole country. Danny didn’t win this season, but I predict that many young children will look up to him as their American Idol.