Blind date etiquette

October 27, 5:31 PMSalt Lake City Dating Advice ExaminerLiz Little

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Blind dates are a social situation that are dreaded by most and avoided by many. While it is true that blind dates have the potential to be disastrous, blind dates can also be a fun evening out; an introduction to a new friend or activity; and possibly the beginning of a life long romance.

Like all social situations there is special etiquette for blind dates. Here are a few tips to improve your dating etiquette.

1. Always say yes to a match maker. When your friends, coworkers, and family members want to set you up on a blind date take their interest as a compliment. Try and avoid complaining or feeling annoyed about yet another blind date. The people who know you best think that you are wonderful and they want to help you find happiness. Always accept blind dates. You never know, you might find true love.
2. Schedule your blind date over the phone. There is something in the power of the human voice that forms an instant connection. Keep the initial conversation short. Set a date and time to meet and then politely end the conversation. If your blind date is a dud you will want all of the "get to know you" conversation you can find.
3. Keep blind dates short. There is no reason to plan a marathon date. If you enjoy your blind date schedule another date and end your night on a high note. If you do not enjoy your blind date, a short date allows both of you to end the date gracefully.
4. Stay positive. After a date your match maker will usually ask for a post date report. Even if you had the worst night of your life, try and keep your comments as positive as possible. There is no reason to punish your match maker for a dating mishap. If you didn’t enjoy yourself all you need to say is “Thank you for setting me up, but I’m not interested in going out again.”

The next time you feel like declining a blind date ask around. More than likely you know someone who found their true love on a blind date. Besides, isn’t love worth the risk?