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Deborrah Cooper is a dating expert and online advice columnist with more than 20 years of experience. She frequently appeared on KMEL radio and has been featured in national magazines and newspapers across the country. Her book Sucka Free Love! How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional and The Deranged is a smart, funny and enlightening guide for singles on contemporary dating. A native San Franciscan, Deborrah spent her formative dating years in the City. Now a retired player, she enjoys advising, counseling and sharing knowledge about games and dating techniques, encouraging smarter ... SUCKA FREE choices in love. She is also single.

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Older woman dating younger man - advice on maintaining relationship boundaries

Thursday, December 10th, 2009 · 3 comments

Dear Deborrah: I have been seeing a younger man now for three months. Just last week I decided to ask him what he was expecting and what he felt about...
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Murder-suicides in romantic relationships discussed with expert Katherine van Wormer, Ph.D.

Saturday, December 5th, 2009 · 1 comment

The pending break up is most often the trigger for violence against women to occur, which may sometimes escalate to murder, or a murder-suicide. The...
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Romance and finance - when to share income and debts with dating partners

Thursday, December 3rd, 2009

Dear Deborrah: I am so glad this service is available! I don’t know who else to ask about this but you. Anyway, I bought a house a few years ago...
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Single moms need to know - men hate wild bratty children and may refuse to date you

Tuesday, December 1st, 2009 · 5 comments

Dear Deborrah: When is enough...enough? I'm in love with a beautiful single mom with a four year old son. The problem is he runs all over her. He...
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Drama queen embarassed about how stupid she's acting after a breakup

Tuesday, December 1st, 2009 · 1 comment

Dear Deborrah: A few years ago, I was left severely broken hearted by a coward of a man. I hated life and everything about it. I dropped out of...
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Dating tips: why would a man marry when he is getting the "milk" for free?

Saturday, November 28th, 2009

Continuing from the first half of this article entitled Living Together Before Marriage is Dumb! here are a couple of more things to consider before...
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Living together before marriage is dumb (part one)

As a teen, I was often reminded by my grandfather that men "won't buy the cow if the milk is free." But 25 years later premarital sex,...
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What do men say is sexy about women?

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Women dress, walk, talk and adorn themselves in ways that they think will be attractive to the opposite sex. Throughout history women have subjected...
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How to get your man to propose marriage in just 90 days

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Most women have fantasized since childhood of a traditional proposal where the man she loves romantically asks for her hand in marriage. Aware of the...
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Dating 101: men need to respect women's relationship boundaries

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Dear Deborrah: I've just come back from lunch at Kuleto's with a lady (she's 32 and I am 33) that I've been chasing for months. We went out for coffee...
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