The infidelity tip sheets and infidelity reports listed below were compiled by infidelity expert Ruth Houston, founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com and author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs.
These tip sheets and special reportsare provided FREEof charge and are packed with practical, no-nonsense, immediately-usable infidelity information and advice for men and women dealing with issues of infidelity.
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NOTE: Because these infidelity tip sheets contain sensitive information, they are not sent out by auto-responder. Tip sheet requests are personally handled by infidelity expert Ruth Houston, and are sent out 2 or 3 times a week depending on the volume of requests. If you do not receive your free tip sheet within 24 to 48 hours, please be patient, as there may sometimes be an unusually heavy volume of requests.
For more infidelity information and advice, visit infidelity expert Ruth Houston’s National Infidelity column at www.NationalInfidelity.com where you will find over 200 articles containing practical advice on all aspects of infidelity, from discovery to recovery.
FREE infidelity tip sheets listed below:
What to Look for at the Office Christmas Party if You Suspect a Workplace Affair – LIMITED AVAILABILITY
If you suspect your spouse or significant other of workplace infidelity, accompanying him or her to their company Christmas party this year can either confirm what you suspect, or set your mind at ease. Office Christmas parties have a way of exposing workplace affairs. But knowing what to look for is the key. If your mate is romantically involved with someone they work with, their body language, and their behavior around each other will give them away. For tips on what to look for, e-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with "Christmas – What to Look For – Xm" in the subject line.
NOTE: This tip sheet is available ONLY during the holiday season, as part of the annual Christmas Infidelity Awareness Campaign. The tip sheets below are available, year round.
Is He Cheating? – Is She Cheating? – 21 Ways You Can Tell
Is your husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse or significant other cheating on you? There are 21 major categories of infidelity signs, which means there are 21 different ways you can tell. Each category consists of multiple signs. This tip sheet includes a description of each of the of 21 categories, and gives you the number of signs each category contains. Since most of the signs are subtle, knowing what to look for is the key. The future of your marriage or relationship may one day depend on your ability to recognize these cheating signs in time. E-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with “21 ways – Xm2” in the subject line.
5 Things You SHOULDN’T Do If He’s Cheating on You
If you’ve just discovered your husband or boyfriend is cheating on you there are 5 mistakes you shouldn’t make. Even if you’re not sure yet how you will handle the situation, this tip sheet will keep you from doing something that could later sabotage the final course of action you decide to take. Whether you end up leaving the cheater, or giving him a second chance, you’ll want to avoid making these 5 mistakes. E-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with “5 things – Xm2” in the subject line.
How Wives with Cheating Husbands Can Gain the Upper Hand
Many women put up with cheating husbands because they feel they have no choice, or because they don’t know what else to do. This tip sheet contains practical suggestions on how you can discreetly work behind the scenes to protect yourself emotionally, legally, financially and sexually, and gain the upper hand if you have a cheating spouse . It will help you minimize much of the damage infidelity can cause. E-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with “Upper Hand – Xm2” in the subject line.
Go or Stay? How to Decide Whether to Give a Cheater a Second Chance
Should you stay with a cheater or leave him? Under what circumstances should you give a cheater a second chance? This tip sheet covers some of the important factors to consider when trying to make that choice. In addition to helping you make an intelligent decision on the best course of action to take, the Go or Stay Tip Sheet also addresses two of the biggest obstacles to taking a cheater back. E-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with “Go or Stay – Xm2” in the subject line.
How to Legally and Financially Get Revenge on a Cheating Spouse
When the shock and disbelief of being cheated on wears off, hurt and anger follow, accompanied by a desire for revenge. It’s natural for infidelity victims to want to get even with the cheater, but violence or destructive measures could land you in jail. This tip sheet tells how to legally and financially get back at a cheating spouse, and also recommends 3 affordable resources to help you even the score. E-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with “Revenge – Xm2” in the subject line.
Same Sex Infidelity Tip Sheet a 2-part tip sheet
Could you be an unsuspecting victim of same sex infidelity? Part 1 of the same sex infidelity tip sheet describes a discreet 3-step procedure for finding out if your husband or significant other is sexually involved with other men, including 16 things to look for. Part 2 explains what to do, how to confront a gay or bisexual husband or boyfriend, and where to turn for help. E-mail SameSex16@gmail.com with “Same Sex 16 –Xm2” in the subject line.
NOTE:If you are an African-American woman, request the Down Low Dozen tip sheet below which includes the same information as this tip sheet, plus additional information about the specific health issues of Black women involved with gay or bi-sexual Black men.
The Down Low Dozen Tip Sheet
A 2-part tip sheet describing a discreet 3-step method Black women can use to find out if their husbands or boyfriends are on the “down low,” or engaging in same-sex infidelity. Part 1 gives you a dozen signs to be alert for, plus 4 bonus signs for a total of 16 down low signs in all. Part 2 contains practical suggestions on what to do if, after following the steps in Part 1, you find that you’re in a down low situation. E-mail DownLowDozen@gmail.com with “Dozen – Xm2” in the subject line.
Will He Cheat Quiz (also known as The Potential Cheater’s Quiz)
Some men are more likely than others to cheat on their mates because of their background, personal beliefs, past history, or certain character traits. This quick, but accurate 7-question quiz tells you if the man in your life is a potential cheater who’s prone to infidelity. Send an e-mail to InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with “Will He Cheat Quiz – Xm2” in the subject line.
20 Signs You’re Dating a Married Man
It’s common for married men to troll chat rooms and online dating sites in search of unsuspecting single women on whom to prey. But dating deception occurs in offline social settings too (parties, clubs, bars, blind dates, etc). Studies show that 1 in 5 men claim to be single when they're not. This tip sheet gives single women 20 signs which can indicate they may be dating a married man. E-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with “Married Man – Xm2” in the subject line.
9 Signs of Financial Infidelity
Financial infidelity is often a sign of sexual infidelity. Two studies found that financial infidelity, or dishonesty about spending habits, is a problem in a third of all marriages and committed relationships, today. This tip sheet gives you 9 financial signs of infidelity to be alert for if you suspect your mate of being dishonest about his or her financial affairs. E-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with “financial – Xm2 " in the subject line.
For more practical infidelity advice, visit infidelity expert Ruth Houston’s National Infidelity column at www.NationalInfidelity.com
NOTE: If you are willing to share your personal infidelity story in a TV documentary, see Tell Your Infidelity Story in a Documentary on TV. Scroll down for more details at the end of this article. _______________________________________________________________
*** © copyright 2010 Ruth Houston All Rights Reserved.
Ruth Houston is a New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on high profile infidelity and popular infidelity issues in the news. She is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com, the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, and publishes the Infidelity News and Views blog. To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, or have her speak at your next event, call 718 592-6029 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com
For additional infidelity resources that can help you, see the list below:
Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs (soft cover book)
Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (e-book version with Affair Recovery information)
Online Resources to Help You Catch or Monitor a Cheating Mate
The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2010
Reverse Phone Search - www.CheatingSpousePhoneSearch.com
Reverse E-mail Address Search - www.CheatingSpouseEMailSearch.com
Online Background Checks - www.CheatingSpouseBackgroundCheck.com
SHARE YOUR INFIDELITY STORY on TV, or in a Newspaper or Magazine Article
If you are dealing with issues of infidelity and would like to share your story in a TV documentary or news segment on infidelity, would like to be interviewed by a magazine editor or a newspaper reporter either openly, or anonymously with your identity concealed, e-mail InfidelityStory@gmail.com with a few sentences about your infidelity situation, and a number where you can be reached.
Requests Several Times a Year
Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is frequently called on by the media to comment on infidelity issues in the news and has appeared on The Today Show, Good Morning America, ABC News, NBC News, Fox News, Fox and Friends, CNN, and others too numerous to list here. Several times during the year, Ruth is contacted by producers working on infidelity documentaries, TV specials and news segments, and by reporters and editors working on infidelity articles for newspapers or magazines., for assistance in finding people who are willing to share their personal infidelity experiences.
Male or Female Infidelity Victims or Cheaters from All Backgrounds
Requests vary with each reporter, editor, or TV producer, and include couples or individuals, male or female infidelity victims or cheaters of all walks of life, and all ethnicities, who are currently dealing with infidelity, or have dealt in the past with a variety of infidelity situations. (office affairs, cyber or online affairs, emotional infidelity, same sex infidelity, female infidelity and more) For details see Tell Your Infidelity Story in a Documentary on TV.
How to Get in Touch
If you, or someone you know is willing to be interviewed, send your name and a phone number where you can be reached, and a brief description of your infidelity situation (a paragraph or a few sentences) to InfidelityStory@gmail.com.
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