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Swinger wife: Wife sharing from a woman's perspective

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What does it feel like for a wife to be engaged in the swinging lifestyle? What does it feel like for her to know that her husband is willingly sharing her with another man for sexual purposes? Will you not feel as loved by your man or will you feel more loved by him if you become a part of the swinging lifestyle? If you are interested in the swinging lifestyle, then these are probably questions that are going on in your mind. These questions are common, so this article will address what a swinger wife feels like during everyday life and during swinging.

During Everyday Life

There is a unique secret that a swinger wife and her husband share. It is a secret that adds passion to their sex life and intimacy in their relationship.

The intimacy comes from knowing that they can engage in the swinging lifestyle but still be connected together on an emotional and physical level that no one else can come between. It is exhilarating to know that your husband is willing to let you explore your sexual fantasies without being angry, jealous, or mean, and it also increases the trust and respect for your husband on a daily basis. In fact, a swinger wife has more trust in her husband than many wives because she knows what is going on at all times.

The openness of the relationship also increases the intimacy. Many women keep secrets about what they truly want in their marriage, both on an emotional and physical level. A swinger wife doesn't have to be scared to tell her husband what she thinks or what she wants, because she knows that he is willing to do what it takes to make her happy and will not judge or persecute her no matter what she says. Swingers enjoy this open trust, communication and honesty, that many couples will never be able to have.

The passion comes from being sexually satisfied and intrigued. Not only does a swinger wife get to satisfy her fantasies outside of the marriage, but she gets to share those fantasies with her husband. If you haven't tried it, trust me, it is a huge turn on to both the wife and husband in the marriage and sex gets better.

During Swinging

It can be exhilarating to see your husband as sexually attractive to other women, knowing that at the end of the day he is yours to go home with and grow old with. It is a reminder of the value he holds in your life and of the man that he is. In fact, any swinger wife will tell you that her husband is consistently sexy to her because she is constantly reminded of his masculinity that women crave. This can be a sharp contrast to regular marriages where the husband can become less of a man to his wife and more of a nuisance.

And experiencing true femininity during swinging, where other men or women want to embrace your body, can make you feel like a true feminine goddess. You are reminded that you are a vibrant, sexual being who is desired not only by your husband by other people too, and your sensual side is constantly being exposed for the world to see. This enhances self-esteem both in the bedroom and out of the bedroom.

Also, embracing your true femininity can help you live a truer life. It allows you to be a vulnerable woman in this time of conformity when you are supposed to be tough and dominant in order to prove your worth to the world. There is no better feeling that fully embracing your natural feminine self as you are appreciated for the woman you are by others.

Things To Think About

If you are interested in being a swinging wife, congratulations! You are on your way to satisfaction in your marriage and your sex life that you have never felt before. However, there are some things you need to think about before you jump into the swinging lifestyle.

First, a swinger wife is no different from a regular wife when it comes to needs in the marriage. She needs communication in the marriage in order to stay satisfied with the arrangement or else suspicion and jealousy can quickly ruin the whole thing. Therefore, you and your husband need to develop your communication skills before you engage in this lifestyle. Constant dialogue and honesty is the key to being happy with the lifestyle and your husband. Above all you need to trust one another.

Second, there has to be rules that you and your husband create and follow. These rules are a guideline to help you stay inside what you are comfortable with while swinging. What your husband is comfortable with needs to be respected and vice-versa. If you don't follow rules in the beginning then trust issues can occur, and pushing your comfort zone later on will likely not happen; therefore, no bending the rules for 'just one time' because the rules were put in place for a reason.

In the end, wife sharing can be a sexy and enlightening thing for a wife. It can help build a stronger marriage, satisfy sexual needs, and boost self-esteem and authenticity.

To learn about becoming a swinger wife as a couple visit: Swinglifestyle.com

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