Making a woman feel beautiful

Photo by: Chuck Felix

It is Zan Perrion who says this:

"Men who love women are loved by women"

That's right.  If you can make a woman feel like the most graceful, magnificent creature in the world, then they'll repay you by pleasuring you like the most graceful, magnificent creature in the world.

But wait?  Isn't this...putting a woman on a pedestal?  For those of you who have seen the movie The 40 Year Old Virgin, there is a scene where Andy takes his lover's daughter to the sex clinic.  The dialogue goes like this:

Andy Stitzer: You know what? I'm a virgin too.
Dad at Health Clinic: We're virgins too.
[laughing]
Boy at Health Clinic: Yeah.
[high five's dad]
Andy Stitzer: No, you know what? It's a personal choice and I don't think it's weird at all.
Dad at Health Clinic: You know what your problem is? You're putting the p**** on a pedestal.

Source:  http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0405422/quotes

There is a contradiction between these two statements.  If you put a woman on a pedestal, you're not going to get laid.  But if you don't put her on a pedestal, you're not going to get laid.  Solution?  Once again, Zan Perrion comes to the rescue:

"The nice guy puts a woman on a pedestal... the lover puts women on a pedestal."
-The Ars Amorata Facebook fan page

The problem with putting a single woman on a pedestal is that it puts you in a position of neediness.  If this one girl does not accept you and your actions, then she holds all the power.  However, if you put all women upon a pedestal, then you can simply find another woman. 

Here are some tips on making women in general feel beautiful:

Treat her well and expect nothing in return - Most guys will buy flowers, wine and dine her, and flatter a girl just for the chance to hop in her pants.  Do you know a job where a female accepts money for a sexual act?  Exactly.  I would not want a woman to feel like a whore.

Compliment her, sincerely - Find something that makes her unique, different from other girls.  Then celebrate it.  It's idiosyncracies that make people enjoyable.

Indulge in her femininity - To generalize Zan's statement, people enjoy people who enjoy each other.  And a woman will enjoy a man who enjoys her.  What is the best way for a woman to feel enjoyed?  I'll leave that to your imagination. 

Respect her - Classic rule: Treat others the way you want to be treated.  Don't force her to do anything, and let her own free will decide it.  Don't confuse this with playful resistance. 

Celebrate all women, and when you find that special girl, celebrate her a bit more.  But be ready to let her go at any time.  The time you and her spend is something that can't be taken away, so enjoy it while you have it. 

Women will love you for it.

Until we meet again,
Olin Gallet
New Orleans Pick-Up Artist Examiner
odgallet@uno.edu
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