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Elizabeth Edwards embraces John's love child; infidelity and forgiveness

Upon meeting little Quinn, Elizabeth said, 'Go stand next to Daddy," and she took a picture of John and his love child, according to People.

For the sake of family and a child who is  half-sister to the Edwards' children, Elizabeth Edwards met and embraced John's baby Frances Quinn.

The forgiveness factor

Points that I stress so often with regard to marriage and infidelity -- anger is dangerous and damaging.  Using the word "cheater" is degrading.  Searching for clues is demeaning.   At some point in a person's  life there must be forgiveness. This meeting with Quinn is Elizabeth's example of forgiveness and acceptance to give her own children.

The meeting

People on Today says, "The PEOPLE story describes a meeting between Elizabeth Edwards and 23-month-old Frances Quinn Hunter — the baby John fathered with Hunter — in a mediated visit at a North Carolina hotel.

"She gave it a lot of thought, wrapped up a bunch of Christmas presents, took them to the baby and was so pleased when Quinn made a beeline to the toy carriage and doll," Anania told PEOPLE. "She even said to Quinn, 'Go stand next to Daddy.' And she took a picture. 

"I don't know how she could do that," Anania added. "She just has a big heart." Edwards calls separation 'extraordinarily sad' - TODAY People ...

Elizabeth Edwards admits that her cancer has spread and she is trying to make arrangements for her oldest daughter to become guardian of the couple's younger children. 

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Rita Esposito Watson writes about love, lies, commitment and sex for both her syndicated blog at www.ritawatson.com and the Providence Journal. She was formerly at Yale and the New York Times.

Comments

  • Roberta Baxter Eugene,OR. Dogs Examiner 1 year ago

    You told this story well. Mrs. Edwards is a remarkable woman. She will reap the benefits of forgiveness.

  • Richard C. Ryder Manning Relationships Examiner 1 year ago

    Hi, great piece. Just want to let you know that because of my severe back pain, you might not see me much. I will be on when and if my back allows me. Thank you, Friend. Richard.

  • Sandy Reese 1 year ago

    I watched Larry King Live last night and I thought Elizabeth Edwards did a great job she deserve forgiveness and finds peace in her life along with her children. Stay strong Elizabeth as I am behind you alll the way.

  • Winona Cooking Examiner 1 year ago

    Well presented article, the best to Mrs. Edwards for all her efforts.

  • Winona Home & Living 1 year ago

    Forgiveness is headed her way, what a remarkable person.

  • Carol Rossi, SF East Bay Organic Gardening Examine 1 year ago

    She is an impressive person. I admire her ability to act in a magnanimous manner at this very difficult time in her life.

  • Lynn 1 year ago

    When the news about John Edwards, his mistress & love child came about, I felt so sorry for Elizabeth; yet, I couldn't understand how she continued living with such a "jerk". This man fully knew from the very first moment he flirted around with Hunter what he was leading up to. He knew that he had a wife, family and he didn't let any of this stop him from unzipping his pants. He wanted this more than he wanted staying "clean" for the sake of his marriage. I have no respect for this man. None. Elizabeth, you have finally made the step to "happiness" and in doing so, you will find a better life for yourself without this "looser". I admire your forgiving attitude and I can tell that you are a woman with a wonderful soul. I wish you and your children the very best ~ forever. Time will heal all your hurt, you'll see.

  • Sud 1 year ago

    Classy guy John Edwards. If he plays his cards right he could still end up in a house trailer with his baby mama back in Seneca, SC before he dies.

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