“Can I trust you this much? Show me.” The perfect tools can’t help us, unless you ask for change. Our mistakes and really seeing each other. What if we started asking?
This is fair
The sense of direct connection with people, is it lost. Random closeness. Falling into each other and trusting.
“Get a job”
It’s the fear of straying from the norm’, of failure. Giving yourself away for free whenever you can and asking for help whenever you can. And fall into thousands of connections. The real answer is you don’t make people connect with you, you ask them. Asking makes you vulnerable. “Oh I can’t do that.”
You’re not allowed to ask for that kind of help
So many ask why? This isn’t how you do it. It’s not how it’s done. It’s not counterintuitive. They aren’t with you can they can’t see the exchange going on between you and all the others who live and feel the way that you do from the ground up and from the heart.
You have to stand there and physically and take the help from people
You can’t see it and feel it unless you lived on the streets or had to couch surf, unless you break all ties with the material world. You become the “hat.” You get a lot of practice standing there open and you can ask for help because you know it works.
Through the very act of asking people, people want to help you. People don’t want to ask other people for things, anything they need. “To catch me.”
So this is the moment to decide to connect with people, this is the moment you have to give it all up. The ninja master level of trusting “this much.” Not untouchable, not being loved from a distance by a lot of people. It’s about a few people loving you up close and it’s about really loving just a few people and those people being enough.
It’s not about blocking off the connection by saying it has to come this way, it can only come to me in this manner, the manner in which the world agrees that it is O.K. in their eyes. Because they can’t, they’e too afraid. To be all the way open. To give and receive fearlessly.
When you connect with people they want to help you, they want to connect with you. People have been obsessed with the wrong questions.
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