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25 reasons why men cheat

A laundry list of the many reasons why men cheat on their mates
A laundry list of the many reasons why men cheat on their mates
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Men cheat for a variety of reasons.

Below is a laundry list of 25 reasons men cheat, based on my 17+ years of research on the topic of infidelity.

As an infidelity expert, I’ve interviewed somewhere between 8000 and 10,000 people about various aspects of infidelity (maybe more – I’ve lost count over the years) – men and women; infidelity victims and cheaters.

Below are 25 of the more common reasons men cheat. Bear in mind that some men cheat for several of the reasons on the list below.

And just so we’re clear, infidelity is wrong. None of these are valid reasons for cheating on your mate.


25 of the Many Reasons Why Men Cheat

1. Inability to say no. He attracts sexy women who come onto him, and he doesn’t know how to say “no.”See How Good Men End Up Cheating on their Mates.

2. To boost his ego – Infidelity is an ego boost for a man with low self esteem – especially if he’s less successful or earns less money than his.

3. Peer Pressure. He spends a lot of time in the company of people who cheat. His workmates, or close friends are cheating on their mates. So he succumbs to peer pressure and cheats to be part of the crowd. See Infidelity Traps - 12 Ways People Unintentionally Get Drawn into Cheating on Their Mates

4. To end the relationship. Sometime a cheating man will have what is called an “exit affair” because he wants end the marriage or relationship. Instead of manning up and telling you it’s over, he takes the coward’s way out, knowing that if you catch him cheating, you’ll leave him or kick him out.

5. Because you let him- He cheated before you let him get away with it. See If He’s Cheating, Take a Firm Stand.

6. He views it as a status symbol. Many men consider it a status symbol to be able to afford a mistress. He may view it as one of the trappings of success.

7. To satisfy his sexual orientation. If he’sgay or bisexual, he may cheat on you by having affairs with other men. See the free Same Sex Infidelity tip sheet.

8. To see what it’s like to have sex with someone else. Men who married young, or had limited sex experience before settling down, may cheat to see what they might have missed.

9. Because he knows he can get away with it. He cheated before and you didn’t find out, so he’s confident he can do it again. See 7 Steps to Catch a Cheating Mate .

10. Opportunistic sex. He was presented with an opportunity to cheat without the fear of getting caught, so he took advantage of the situation. See How Good Men End Up Cheating on their Mates

11. A Sense Of Entitlement. Many men feel they’re so rich, famous, handsome, sexy, charming or ____________ (you fill in the blank) that they are entitled to cheat because of who they are.

12. He figures you’ll never find out– He thinks you’re too stupid, too naïve, too busy, too in love with them, too trusting to find out, or even suspect that he’s having an affair. See Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? –21 Ways You Can Tell

13. To prove his manhood. Some men think that the more women they have sex with, the more manly they are. They think cheating is a macho thing to do

14. The thrill of the chase. Some cheaters actually thrive on the excitement generated by a secret affair. They view all the ducking, dodging and sneaking around infidelity involves as a form of recreation, or a high-risk sport.

15. He’s a player. He’s a hardcore cheater for whom cheating is a way of life. He likes having lots of women and pitting one against the other. To him, it’s just a game.

16. He knows you’ll take him back. He knows you’ll never leave him. He cheated before and you didn’t hesitate to take him back without making him go through any changes or holding him accountable for his behavior. See When to Give Cheater a Second Chance.

17. Love. Some men cheat because they’re really in love with the other woman. It may have started out as a cyber affair, or an innocent friendship that became an emotional affair, which progressed to sexual infidelity. See Emotional Infidelity Usually Leads to Sexual Infidelity.

18. Poor role models If his father, uncles, or other male role models cheated, he may be subconsciously programmed to follow their example, considering infidelity to be the norm – especially if the female role models in his life tolerated the infidelity.

19. To participate in certain sex acts. Some men cheat to fulfill their sexual fantasies, or because they want kinky sex, or sex acts their wives or girlfriends won’t perform.

20. The influence of drugs or alcohol A great deal of infidelity ( especially one night stands) can be attributed to the influence drugs or alcohol, which can lower inhibitions, and impair good judgment, resulting in behavior the cheater may later regret. See Infidelity Traps - 12 Ways People Unintentionally Get Drawn into Cheating on Their Mates

21. Cultural reasons– He may come from a culture (Caribbean, certain European or Asian cultures) where it’s common for men to have mistresses.

22. To see if he’s still “got it.” Men in their 50’s and older sometimes cheat just to reaffirm their sexuality. They cheat to prove they can still attract and sexually satisfy another woman – usually one who is younger than their mate.

23. He knows you’ll put up with his cheating Some men cheat because they know their partner will look the other way - as long as they’re discreet, keep their infidelity low key, and avoid publicly embarrassing their mate. See Why Women Stay with Men Who Cheat.

24. Revenge. Though revenge cheating is more with women than with men, sometimes a man will cheat to get back a wife or girlfriend who cheated on him. See 3 types of Revenge Cheating or Retaliatory Affairs

25. Sex addiction– probably the only reason on this list that can halfway be excused because true sex addiction is a medical condition in which the cheater really can’t help himself. If he’s truly a sex addict, he needs to get professional help. But true sex addiction is not as common as men would have you believe. See Could Your Cheating Husband or Boyfriend be a Sex Addict Like Tiger Woods or Jesse James? Many cheating men use sex addiction as a cop-out AFTER they’ve been caught.


Other Reasons Why Men Cheat

This is by no means a complete list of the reasons why men cheat. Men cheat for other reasons, including the ones listed below:

  • low moral values
  • he doesn’t believe in monogamy
  • because he thinks that all men cheat
  • because he didn’t think you’d really care
  • because he’s spoiled, selfish or inconsiderate and wants to have his own way
  • because he wants to have his cake and eat it too
  • just because he can
  • he wants to make you jealous
  • he’s a nonconformist who likes breaking rules
  • to prove to himself or his friends that he’s smart enough to cheat without getting caught

As previously mentioned, many men may cheat for a combination of the reasons above.


Precautions You Can Take

Infidelity can strike anyone at anytime. No one is immune. See Will You Be the Next Woman to Become a Victim of Infidelity?

For ways to reduce the likelihood that he will cheat on you, see How Can I keep Him from Cheating on Me?

The best thing you can do is educate yourself about infidelity because you can’t afford to be the last one to know. See What a Betrayed Wife Stands to Lose by Being the Last to Know

The sooner you can spot the signs of an affair, or the early warning signs of impending infidelity, the better your chances are of short-circuiting the affair, getting your marriage or relationship back on track, or taking steps to minimize the damage infidelity can cause. See Is He Cheating? – Is She Cheating? – 21 Ways You Can Tell.

For practical advice from an infidelity expert on on spotting, understanding, or dealing with infidelity, visit www.NationalInfidelity.com , or see the list of articles below.

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*** © copyright 2010 Ruth Houston All Rights Reserved.

Ruth Houston is a New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on high profile infidelity and popular infidelity issues in the news. She is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com, the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, and publishes the Infidelity News and Views blog. To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, or have her speak at your next event, call 718 592-6029 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com

For practical advice on catching a cheater or dealing with infidelity, see the articles below:

How Can I Keep Him From Cheating on Me?

Will You Be the Next Woman to Become a Victim of Infidelity?

Will He Cheat on You? – a 7-Question Quiz

How Good Men End Up Cheating on their Mates

Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? –21 Ways You Can Tell (free tip sheet)

Are Wives to Blame When Husbands Cheat?

The Top 10 Reasons Why Men and Women Cheat

Happy Husbands Cheat,Too

Infidelity Traps - 12 Ways People Unintentionally Get Drawn into Cheating on Their Mates

28 Ways to Stay Faithful to Your Mate (free tip sheet)

Is There a Gene That Makes Men Cheat?

Emotional Infidelity Usually Leads To Sexual Infidelity

What a Betrayed Wife Stands to Lose by Being the Last to Know

Why the Wife is STILL the Last to Know

40 Fatal Signs That You’re about to Be Dumped

Online Resources to Help You Catch or Monitor a Cheating Mate

FREE Infidelity Tip Sheets for Men and Women with Cheating Mates

The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2010

Comments

  • Othniel Seiden, MD 4 years ago

    Good article. Many of these reasons can be attributed to women who cheat.

  • Dig 4 years ago

    There is one more reason men cheat a lot in USA.The reason is USA is a country full of beautifull women.These big ammount of beautiful women are constantly sayin:look at me!!,Look at me!! You have to see how sexy I Am!!! and go on.A few men can resist so much temptations.

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    Chump Lady 2 years ago

    I would add, because they can. It comes down to entitlement. Everything flows from that initial sense that they "deserve" this, that it's okay. That getting ego kibbles is worth the price of your well-being. I blog about infidelity at www.chumplady.com

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  • Anonymous 1 year ago

    All of these are not reasons. They may or may not be true in and of themselves, but they are absolutely not "why" men cheat.

    Cheating happens for one reason: you needle some guy into an unrealistic life long tie that stands zero chance of happening in real life, and you do not understand that sex and love are not intrinsic to one another, but most of all, it's pure hard wired biology.

    We are not a sexually exclusive species. Never have been, never will be. There is no choice to mate for life, we do not mate for life. We are only exclusive temporarily and then we move on. If you rope some guy into a mating for life role and think you can rest easy, Mother Nature will guarantee you won't like the outcome.

    Beyond that, a man cheats simply because he can. As long as he has options, he will take them. The kind who has no options - the slovenly fat useless sorts no attractive women want anyway - will be all about mating for life. But if a hot woman approached him for sex, he'll go for it same as the hot guy.

    And contrary to popular wishful thinking no other woman made you any vows or promises and they are not obliged to respect your relationship with a guy when the guy himself won't even do it. Women can't prevent cheating as long as they impose unrealistic impossible terms and time constraints on their relationships and think their vaginas hold some sort of intrinsic value in the mating market and use them as negotiation tools. Educate yourselves for a change.

  • Anonymous 1 year ago

    Well rounded article, Ruth.

    I visited Chump Lady's blog after she posted the link, and its one-sidedness does a disservice to people who are having a solid reconciliation after one cheating episode.

    Chump Lady claims she does not give psychiatric advice, but that is what she does daily as she claims that those that reconcile are codependent or fear change or too insecure to leave and bashes people over the head with her unsupported, unresearched message that almost all reconciliations will fail. The statistics don't show this, but that is what is falsely touted at Chump Lady's site and if anyone points that out in response to her blogs, they are deleted.

    Moreover, Chumplady talks about ego kibbles, while inviting them and gobbling them up at her own very self-promotional websites that also sells silly t shirts and mugs and solicits donations. The constant one-POV undocumented claim that ALMOST all reconciliations are doomed to failure ruins what would have been an Interesting and helpful website to offer an alternative perspective for consideration to someone who has been cheated on.

  • Erin 1 year ago

    I was married to my beloved husband and we loved and cherished ourselves for good 2years and every thing was going on smoothly but june 29, 2013 we both had misunderstanding and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and I plead to him because I love him so much but he refused me I was so down I felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a spell caster that helped her sister out in getting her relationship back, a good job and favor in any of her endeavor but at first I was scared but I have to give this man a trial because I love my husband very much and I am not willing to loose him to any woman, so I ordered returning love spell from this great spell caster called Dr Orissa that made me a happy woman again to say it all my husband came back to me with much love and a caring heart...i am testifying to this great spell caster you are a great man in this world and you mean so much to me you are the best spell caster. you can contact this man via this email if you really need to get your problems solve orissatemple@yahoo.com

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  • Seriously Speaking 1 year ago

    Well i certainly do have to say that the women are the Biggest Cheaters Today since they just can't Commit to Only One Man Anymore.

  • Anonymous 1 year ago

    I have sex with this women across from me in apartment D8&etc in Tuolumne because I want to make her jealous & fuck up her relationship with Dan Caldie. He has sex with me because he wants to hurt her. we use excuse that she put knife to my throat just so we can have sex with Caldie.

  • Paul 1 year ago

    I am a man and I am not 100% agree on the most of the facts this person shared. Just like women men does have reasons to cheat. Beauty, sex, ego is not always the reason why men cheat.
    Shame on Ruth who wrote this article she don't even know men and nature of men. This article is more about some high school thug not about real men.

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  • Anonymous 1 year ago

    You left one out: Wifey wants out but is hanging on for financial reasons. I have seen this one a million times before. She is no longer happy with him, is out in the clubs, collecting phone numbers, etc., but has no plans to leave anytime soon because hubby is holding down the rent. She is staying until the kids are 18, no matter what. It makes for one truly unhappy man. What about the couple who have agreed to an open marriage, only staying together for the kids sake? Its still cheating, even if consensual.

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  • Oryx 1 year ago

    You mean a women's vagina holds no value unless it is between the thighs of that supermodel or young "beautiful" woman that is throwing herself at those "hot" men and "ugly" men who will cheat no matter as long as the carrying vessel for the semen-receiver is "attractive".

    Don't contradict yourself in the same paragraph. It makes you look like an idiot that has absolutely no idea what they are talking about.

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  • del 11 months ago

    I am fighting the urge to cheat bc I love her so much I run from other women bc i believe in God and hell but she acts like sex is a chore and it is not attractive especially bc she never initiates and I refuse to masterbate bc it feels wrong when I have a perfectly beautiful wife upstairs. As soon as she got married she got lazy the last time I saw pretty panties was the night of our marriage it's been 2.5 years and woman at work are showing me attention and I am feeling weak... Damn I love my wife but I feel she is pushing me away bc of lack of sex drive. I believe that u should use what u used to catch them to keep them period it feels like false advertisement ! Anyway so far so got I want to be a good man and make women proud but I am only human and I am losing this battle fuck me right now she is going to help me go to hell.

  • Del 11 months ago

    Continued:If woman only understood how much sex can make a man feel appreciated women have so much power and don't understand if u give me some b4 I go out I don't even look at other women if anything I compare them to my wife and I am proud to be with mine but when I get none for a long period of time I got out and everyone looks good. Shit there has been times were I get some and I don't even feel like leaving the house lol but she doesn't care and I guess she is selfish but damn I love her so much that this convo feels like cheating to me! I want to spend the rest of my life with her but this sexual frustration is stronger than I want to admit I just want her no one else but I am feeling anger now towards her and I know what comes next God please help me I prayed to have his girl in my life please don't let me ruin it please give me the strength please take away my urges I wish I never tasted sex life was so much easier lol now it has a grasp on me FML. So as u can see some guys are out here fighting the devil and my wife has me fighting the devil alone.....

  • Dell continued 11 months ago

    If woman only understood how much sex can make a man feel appreciated women have so much power and don't understand if u give me some b4 I go out I don't even look at other women if anything I compare them to my wife and I am proud to be with mine but when I get none for a long period of time I got out and everyone looks good. Shit there has been times were I get some and I don't even feel like leaving the house lol but she doesn't care and I guess she is selfish but damn I love her so much that this convo feels like cheating to me! I want to spend the rest of my life with her but this sexual frustration is stronger than I want to admit I just want her no one else but I am feeling anger now towards her and I know what comes next God please help me I prayed to have his girl in my life please don't let me ruin it please give me the strength please take away my urges I wish I never tasted sex life was so much easier lol now it has a grasp on me FML. So as u can see some guys are out here fighting the devil and my wife has me fighting the devil alone.....

  • M. T. 11 months ago

    ok expert.......out of those 10,000 or so ...has there been a devoted husband and father ...that never cheated even though in 28 years of a sexless marriage (first 5 years 2 times a month......6 to 8 years , every two months......last 5 years......maybe 10 times) ....here's the deal...still love my wife and could not hurt her, but would have left....or at least cheated... if not for our son. Ok ...I'm a 51 year old man, excellent shape, not bragging but my wife's friends wish I was there husband ( no b.s.).... I listen....get it???? I listen ...endlessly.....I clean the house and cook.... ( and remodel houses) I'm not a whimp........she constantly says we have the perfect marriage .......I'm a MAN!!!!! I need sex and the touch of a Women !!! Have not cheated!!!!... Yet

  • The Truth 11 months ago

    The #1 reason and I know most dont want to hear it but The are not being taken care of at home. Bottom line. If a man is happy at home then he has no reason to wonder off.

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  • Marian Smith 11 months ago

    hello everyone am jennet Jackson. if I refuse to share this testimony it means I am selfish to my self and to people I love so much whom might have similar problems, my husband left home after a little misunderstanding and never came back home at first I thought it was a joke he left me for his mistress outside, all dis happen in February 1st last year I am sharing this testimony because valentine is back again and so many men will live their wife and celebrate valentine with there girl friend, I complained to my very good friend she told me she was having such problems in her marriage until she was introduce to DR AJAGBO a specialist doctor who specializes in bringing back broken homes and broken marriages DR AJAGBO cast a spell for me in February 10th surprisingly my husband came home February 12th apologizing that I should forgive him that this will never happen again. this I will never forget DR AJAGBO same my marriage his contact address is ajagbotemple@gmail.com. you can still save your marriage if u really love your husband.

  • Becky 11 months ago

    I am Becky by name. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my husband after three(3) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kid to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address dr.okorospelltemple01@gmail.com, have help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 3 days that i will have my husband back. i believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my husband. Thanks for Dr. Okoro. His email: dr.okorospelltemple01@gmail.com

    Dr. OKORO NUMBER: +2348053209149

  • Joan 11 months ago

    Thank you to the Spirits for getting me my man back. Thank you Dr. Lee for taking the time to do the spell for bringing my man back to me. I went to 3 different spell casters, but only you got the job done. I really wasn’t sure anymore if spells were real, but now I know they are. Like I said before I appreciate all your time, effort, and energy you put during the spell cast. He is more open and he admitted he loves me and really wants to try a relationship with me again. After 2 months of separation. We are now back together, and he plans to move in when his lease is up. THANK YOU DR. LEE.... Get to know about his work via Ancientfathersandmothers@gmail.com

  • margaret 11 months ago

    i want to thank Dr Obom for the wonderful spell he did for me. i and my boyfriend have been in relationship for two years plus, all of a sudden he started avoiding me and when i call him sometime he will not pick and when he pick he will be shouting at me, until one day he eventually open up to me that he has a new girlfriend that i should move on with my life without him. i was confuse and short of words because i love him so much. so one day a friend introduced me to Dr Obom who was able to bring back my boyfriend by helping me cast a love spell on him. i was surprise when he called me and started to apologies for lost time and he is ready to marry me. today we are married and we have two kids. you can reach Dr Obom with his email: homeofsolutions1@gmail.com

  • selene 11 months ago

    I just want to share my experience and testimony here.. I was married for 8 years to my husband and all of a sudden, another woman came into the picture.. he started hailing me and he was abusive..but I still loved him with all my heart and wanted him at all cost…then he filed for divorce..my whole life was turning apart and I didn’t know what to do..he moved out of the house and abandoned the kids.. so someone told me about trying spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to a spell caster…so I decided to try it reluctantly..although I didn’t believe in all those things… then when he did the special prayers and spell, after 3days, my husband came back and was pleading..he had realized his mistakes..i just couldn’t believe it.. anyways we are back together now and we are happy..in case anyone needs this man, his email address akwukespiritualtemple@gmail.com his spells is for a better life. again his email is akwukespiritualtemple@gmail.com

  • melissa 11 months ago

    My Name is Mrs Melissa, I was married to my husband for 8years and we were both bless with three children, living together as one love, until 2010 when things was no longer the way the was [when he lost his job]. But when he later gets a new job 6 months after, he stated sleeping outside our matrimonial home. Only for me to find out that he was having an affair with the lady that gave him the job. since that day, when i called him, he don’t longer pick up my calls and nothing since to come out good. Yet my husbands just still keep on seeing the new girl friend till Dr.Aluya cast a spell for me,now is with me and me only.And i am happy with my family if you need his help contact on via email,aluyakespelltemple@live.com.or call him on +2347059498969.

  • Mira 11 months ago

    how my life changed from sorrow to joy thanks to dr Ekuku who i also call dr joy...
    my man was almost moving out of the house before i contacted dr ekuku he told me not to worry everything will be fine and he asked for my contact address and posted some candles to me after i burnt the candle everything change and my man who was planning to move out of the house decided to stay and even bought me a car.
    My heart is full of joy as i share this story of the great man of spell dr ekuku.
    I am using this post as a medium to say thank you to dr ekuku and to also give out his contact.
    Email ekukutempleofsolution@gmail.com and Tel :+2348111957679.
    Name: Mira Cameron
    Location: London,Uk

  • nancy john 11 months ago

    THE GREAT DR iyare WHO BROUGHT MY HUSBAND BACK TO ME IN JUST ONE DAY. My name is Nancy John from uk, I got married 1 year ago. My husband and I have been living a very happy and lovely life. So as time went on, I began to notice this strange attitude that he was possessing. He was now going out with other girls, to the extent that he was no longer picking up my calls, and he was not even sleeping in the house anymore. I became confused and didn't know what to do anymore. So i became worried and stranded, that brought so many thoughts into my mind, because I have never experienced a thing like this in my life. So I decided to visit a spell caster, to see if he can help me out. So immediately I went to the internet, where I saw an amazing testimony of a spell caster who brought someone's ex lover back, "DR iyare" so I contacted him immediately and I explained to him all my problems and he told me that it will be very easy for him to solve, compare to the ones that he has done before. And he also gave me some proof to be really sure of his work, and he assured me that my husband will come back to me as soon as he is through with the spell casting. And also he told me to put all my trust in him, and I really obeyed him. So it was 8:00 am on the next morning, when I was about going to work, when i received my husband call, and he told me that he was coming back home, and he was apologizing to me telling me that he is very sorry for the pain that he has cost me. And after some hour

  • susan 11 months ago

    I am posting on this site on how a great Dr.help me bring back my ex husbandr after 9 months of divorce with two kids. I love him so much,so a friend of mine clara introduced this Dr to me who also help her. he did a spell to bring him back within 24 hours, now we are together no more fight and argument. my lover now loves me more than any thing in the wolrd Thank for helping me bring back my husband to me. If you need any help like
    1 LOVE SPELL
    2 WIN EX BACK
    3 FRUIT OF THE WOMB
    4 PROMOTION SPELL
    5 PROTECTION SPELL
    6 BUSINESS SPELL
    7 GOOD JOB SPELL
    8 LOTTERY SPELL
    9 COURT CASE SPELL
    contact him via email: (Ultimatespellcast@gmail.com) call +2348156885231 for help.

  • LORI 11 months ago

    I'm here to thank the great love spell caster Dr Lawrence for reviving my marriage and my family, I have been all alone ever since my husband left me and my 5years old child for a very long time I always think how i could have him back and make this family together again though is not as easy as that, Then i found out how Dr Lawrence had help many people restore their marriages i emailed him and he cast a restoration spell that heal and brought back my husband i am saying big thank you to the source of my happiness drlawrencespelltemple@hotmail.com

  • Zane 11 months ago

    My name is Zane Albert from Germany i was dumped by the one i love so much. after 5years of our relationship but with the help of Dr Odulami a great spell caster who cast a spell to bring him back for me in just 48hours thanks very much am now happy with the one i love and i want to assure you that the spell is 100% sure of positive results of his spell. if you have the same problem or any kind of problem please contact him on his email odulamispelltemple@gmail.com

  • Alice 11 months ago

    All thanks to Dr Kwale who helped me with his love spell and make my lover to come back to me within 2days, i 'm really grateful to him because if not for his powerful spell i would have been with a broken heart. i really appreciate his work and also i want to thank everyone that has make Dr.kwale known to me and known to everyone that has a broken relationship. i will advice you all to contact Dr kwale via his email address kewaletemple@gmail.com or call his number for him to reunite your broken relationship.

    ALICE

  • Alice 11 months ago

    All thanks to Dr Kwale who helped me with his love spell and make my lover to come back to me within 2days, i 'm really grateful to him because if not for his powerful spell i would have been with a broken heart. i really appreciate his work and also i want to thank everyone that has make Dr.kwale known to me and known to everyone that has a broken relationship. i will advice you all to contact Dr kwale via his email address kewaletemple@gmail.com or call his number for him to reunite your broken relationship.

    ALICE

  • sasren 11 months ago

    i am thanking the great man called drolikipa who help me and cast a love spell on my ex boy, we were in love for more than a year. two days to our marriage he called me and told me that he is no going to marry me that he has a woman that he is so much in love with i cried, my friend told me about this man i felt it was scan until i give it a try and he help me now we are married and we are expecting our baby soon, i will advise if you have any problem contact this man. drolikipaspellhome@gmail.com

  • Cara 11 months ago

    I would just like to say that Dr. Lee really does do miracles, my soulmate came to quicker than I thought he would. I would recommend her to any-one who needs help, and I will use Dr. Lee again for further work in the future. You can as well go to him if you need help. Contact him on his email address: Ancientfathersandmothers@gmail.com.

  • Anonymous 11 months ago

    Dr. Ray Self is actually hosting a free live webinar on the topic Why do men cheat. Wonder what his point of view is. Below is the link to his webinar.

    https://www.bigmarker.com/ICM_College/room115

  • Emiliano Babarah 11 months ago

    I was crushed when my lover of three years left to be with another woman. I
    cried and sobbed every day, until it got so bad that I reached out to the
    Internet for help.And i saw a testimony of a spell caster who help a girl
    called michelle and i said let me give it a try so i contact him for help
    and he cast a love spell for me which i use in getting my love back and now
    i am a happy woman.For what you have done for me,i will not stop to share
    your goodness to people out there for the good work you are doing.I hope
    God blesses you as much as you have help me to get my Love back,visit him
    on oriomonspiritualtemple@yahoo.com is the only answer to your problemS
    EMILIANO BABARAH_USA

  • ellis 11 months ago

    I have a huge testimony to share that a spell lady brought l've to my life through her Greatest Spells, I hope she don’t mind, but I have to share this testimony with everyone. Last year, I needed some changes in my life, because I was sick and tired of all the drama and problems that was in my life. I was cursed real badly and I couldn’t hold on to a man nor a job no longer than 3 months and friends parted from me and even my family wouldn’t help me. Went to a few spell casters last year and nothing happened, but 3 months ago I went to priestess Munak, A spell lady someone talked about. She then carried out some cleansen on me and told me that i was cursed from birth, That she is going to undo the curse and life will be sweet and easy going. After 2nightt which she has done the spell, i started having nightmares and she told me its as a result of the spell undoing all the cursed that has tired me down. Weeks later i saw changing and good wills happening. I was given some money from a old friend and this guy was nice enough to let me move in the building and he worked out payments for me at my job that I recently got back and people were being nicer to me even some of the rude people that gave me problems in the past. I contacted the spell lady on email priestessmunak@gmail.com since then my life has changed for the best. thank you,

  • bela 11 months ago

    I am Mrs BELA from USA, I want to share a testimony of my life to all my viewers in the world I was married to my husband his name is William, I love him so much we have been married for two weeks now with a successful marriage. when he went for a vacation to London he meant a lady called Mary he was behaving some how I don't understand any more?, he told me that he is no longer interested in the marriage any more. I was so confuse and seeking for help, I don’t know what to do until I met my friend miss Lliina and told me about love spell then i contacted drakugbe who also help me then she ask me to contact him to bring his husband back when she was the same condition like that.then she told me not to worry about it that she had a similar problem before and introduce me to a man called drakugbe who cast a spell on her that make my ex run back to her and he bring him back to me after withing 24 hours. Miss Lina ask me to contact drakugbe I contacted him to help me bring back my husband and he ask me not to worry about it that the gods of his fore-fathers will fight for me. He told me by two that days time he will re-unite he meet me before he will have rest and my husband together. After two day my husband called and told me he is coming back to me , I was surprise when I saw him and he started crying for forgiveness. Right now I am the happiest woman on earth for what this great spell caster did for me are apart from that I also control my husband now and my husband love me n

  • Helen 11 months ago

    "I can only say that katelovespell@hotmail.com spell was the best help that I could have had during the most traumatic time I've ever had in my life. My boyfriend of 2 ½ years decided to call off our relationship. Everything that he said would happen did, his behavior was like reading from your lips. In terms of insight into my own personality and the way that I behave it was invaluable and I really won't make those mistakes again, ever. So thank you , I would certainly recommend this to anyone going through difficult times, it was fantastic, it gave me a plan, which in turn gave me hope and got my life back on track at the same time. This got me through the first few weeks and is still helping me now.He now does all of the things that he never used to do and I'm so less needy, I feel like all of the negative stuff that made me what I'd become have fallen away and I'm back to my real self again.

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