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SAN FRANCISCO (Map, News) - Experts and therapists attending a conference in The City this week, co-sponsored by the Archdiocese of San Francisco, say men who have been traumatized by abortion have few places to turn to be healed.
Titled “Reclaiming Fatherhood,” the two-day event has been touted by organizers as the first of its kind in the country.
Little research has been conducted exploring the effect of abortions on men, conference organizers say.
“We have been concerned with many aspects of the abortion issue,” said Supreme Knight Carl Anderson of the Knights of Columbus, a Catholic men’s association that co-sponsored the conference. “Men have been overlooked for a very long time.”
Anderson said he hopes the conference will help men who have been hurt by abortion, and that it will give people “a greater insight into the reality of abortion.”
Vicki Thorn said she has counseled women traumatized by abortion since the 1980s, when she founded the Milwaukee-based Office of Post-Abortion Reconciliation, a Christian group that helped organize the event.
Men can be traumatized, sometimes years later, if they pressure a woman to have an abortion, according to Thorn, or if they discover or suspect that their partner had an abortion.
“They can be angry; they can be mad; they can have a sense of male impotence,” Thorn said.
Family psychologist Dr. Vincent Rue, who serves as an expert witness and consultant in legal cases that involve abortion, will speak during the conference.
Rue said he has treated men who suffered “debilitating” grief, avoidance, denial and hyperarousal because of abortions.
A Planned Parenthood Golden Gate spokeswoman said abortion alone doesn’t cause long-term grief. “If there is any long-term emotional impact, then there are other emotional issues at play,” Amy Moy said.
Conference organizers say they want to keep the event apolitical. “If there’s pain out there, there’s no reason that it shouldn’t be discussed,” Knights of Columbus spokesman Andrew Walther said. “There’s no reason that it shouldn’t be healed.”
The two-day conference starts this morning at St. Mary’s Cathedral in San Francisco. Around 120 people from 26 states and a handful of countries have registered to attend the conference, according to Walther.
Around 1.3 million American women had an abortion in 2003, according to data compiled last year by researchers at the Guttmacher Institute, a nonprofit sexual health group.



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Examiner Reader said:
Just returned from the conference. It was eye-opening and enlightening. Truly a new focus in the abortion discussion-hearing from the voice of the father. Abortion is no longer a woman's issue alone.
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Examiner Reader said:
Millions of men have died from abortion. Does that count?
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Examiner Reader said:
I know a man that used to attend my church who expressed that he stopped having close relationships with females because when he was young he made his girlfriend have an abortion. He never got passed the guilt of it and keeps very distant from getting involved with a woman at all.
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Examiner Reader said:
Men's health can be at risk. If "health" can include emotional, psychological, and familial health (as stated in the Supreme Court's 1973 Doe v Bolton ruling), then it's not much different from women. Probably less than 1% of the women who have abortions do so only because of the fear of death or negative physical effects of pregnancy. It's mostly just socioeconomic or emotional reasons, problems men can experience and problems that can be included under "health." That said, no such finding would probably make a measurable difference in the number of abortions. There are stories every day of men who kill or injure women who won't have abortions. One can imagine how many simply try to talk them into it. If men had a say, I predict there would be no measurable drop in abortion rates.
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Hey HA HA HA said:
First time I've seen a comment from you that seemed just thoughtful and not snide. Go with it! I'm thinking a lot more about your comment than I would have if you'd just said something sarcastic.
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Examiner Reader said:
Until men's lives and health are at risk during pregnancy, they are a secondary party to any decision about it. As yet, no man in history has died from being pregnant. Thousands of women have.
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HA HA HA said:
Just saying it's not a man's decision is not the last word.
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Examiner Reader said:
It is not a man's decision as to whether a woman has an abortion or not, it is the woman who will have to carry the child and give birth. So if men are going to have problems don't have sex with women you haven't discussed the possibility with. Be responsible. This topic is eventually going to be used by the ProLifers to control and dominate women. So men - keep it in your pants and you won't have to worry.
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