7 steps to marry a millionaire

2. Get a career where you will meet men of means, and one that you would be proud to share with his friends and family.  No matter how respectable your current career is, if you are a 3rd grade teacher you are spending your days with 3rd graders. You don't have to make a ton of money but it should be a field where you can meet successful men who will respect you as an authority like a real estate agent, high-end matchmaker with Perfect Search, shop owner, or interior designer.   If your current status is in a mediocre position you need to start an alternative career and take the necessary steps to do so. You can always keep the bread and butter job while you train for a new position, or intern in order to get your foot in the door, but ultimately you need a job where you will meet millionaires and one where you can talk about it with pride to his mom.

3. Get your Bachelor's degree. No man of means wants to bring a bimbo home to his family.  He may want to bed you, but he doesn't want to betroth you.  A bachelors degree is all you need. An advanced degree is not necessary and an AA degree is not enough.  Education does two things. It gives you credibility and it exposes you to a variety of topics.  Both are needed when you meet his friends and family and both will give you the self-confidence and self-efficacy to orbit in the circles of the movers and shakers of his world.

4. Sign up for paying, on line dating sites and set your criteria specifically to meet men in the highest income bracket. Join high-end matchmaking services such as Perfect Search.   A matchmaker meeting hundreds of successful men looking for wives has access to men you may not otherwise come into contact with in your every day life. Women can join the candidate pool for a one time processing fee of 29.95 and will be contacted when a potential match becomes available. Like anything, if you want to get good at something you need to practice.  If you want to be a writer you have to start writing, if you want to be an athlete you have to play often, and if you want to marry a millionaire, you have to start dating millionaires.  At first you may feel like a fish out of water but with time you will feel at ease conversing in topics such as economics, politics, world events and technology.  You will begin to notice what other people in his circles are wearing, how they are behaving and what they are discussing. Before you know it you will start to emulate them and easily fit into the millionaire's world as his wife.  

5. Lose the sense of entitlement attitude. If you want to be treated like a queen you need to treat your man as a king. As described in the e-book, Power Shift: Rescue Dating For Women, women have all the sexual power when they are young but men gain sexual power as they grow financially. Men who were willing to kiss a woman's feet and make her the princess she thought herself to be when she was in her 20s have now grown into their own power and they no longer want to be the one begging for attention. Successful men have options and they will easily dismiss a woman unless she realizes that she is no longer the only prize. He now, is a prize too -- and he has a line of women waiting to replace a woman who acts out in fits of entitlement. 

6. Be interesting in your own ideas, and interested in his. Stay flexible and open minded while impressing him with your deep insights, analysis and inquisitive mind. Never be dogmatic or set in your ways about your opinions.  Remember, you are entering his world and as much as his views, ideals and values may differ from yours, your goal is to broaden yourself so that you may learn and eventually evolve to fit into this world.  If you are open minded about new ideas you may find that the abundant knowledge he acquired during his ascent to success is valuable and worth considering rather than out right opposing. 

7. Be patient and don't push.  A slow burn makes for a steady flame. Successful men hate to be manipulated and can spot a conniving mind a mile a way.  These men have learned to read manipulative people in the business world and will be savvy to any hint of it in their personal lives. They are also extremely competitive by nature, which is how they were able to succeed in their field. You have to be patient enough to make him want you and elusive enough to make him compete for you.  If you appear desperate in any way he will get bored and move on. Successful men need to be challenged for a lasting love.  This means you may have to date sporadically for a while before he commits, and you may have to date for a few more years before he will propose.  Men love you more with time and in the long run, your patience will pay off and you will have your millionaire as a husband.

The difference between winners and losers is that winners are doers and losers are whiners.  If you want to reach your goal of marrying a millionaire you have to be proactive and take direct action.  This means keeping your goal in site, taking necessary steps to reach that goal, and no matter how long it takes, or how many steps involved, never give up. Millionaires who reached their financial goals never gave up.  Many, many failures accompanied their successes and they had to take the bumps and bruises, while learning along the way. The same applies to your goal of marrying a millionaire. Sure, you will need to tweak and re-calibrate the steps as you learn your way and make mistakes, but ultimately, your goal should be unwavering and in your sites at all times.  Just remember, marrying your millionaire  is only half the battle, then you'll need to keep him!  Read the 7 'Fs" for keeping your man.

For more information, contact Melinda Maximova, matchmaker with Perfect Search

melinda@theperfectsearch.com