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Balloon Boy story: hoax or real?

October 16, 4:26 PMRelationship ExaminerDebra Collins
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The story of 6-year-old Falcon Heene has been plausible. A curious boy plays around his dad's balloon which he knows  he is not suppose to. During the course of his play, or shortly thereafter the balloon flies away and the child, feeling responsible, hides in the attic. When he is called he doesn't appear because he fears he is in trouble.

 

Heene's reaction to the incident would be developmentally appropriate. Other contributing factors causing  Heene, or a child of his age to hide, would  be  the  parents discipline style  and whether or not he had been reprimanded in the past for similar behavior. Heene's father  Richard, admitted to yelling at him earlier for playing with the balloon.

 

What caused authorities to reconsider was Heene's explanation, during a TV interview, that  the reason he was hiding in the attic was  because,   "We did this for a show."  While it would be important for the police authorities to see if the parents used their children for a publicity stunt, it is also understandable that a freightened and confused little boy might not be able to put the interviewer's question in context or understand the question. "Why questions" are not really very productive with this age group and children can also have difficulty with time frames.  Plus, it might be a little anxiety producing to be  interviewed both by  law enforcement officials and then on multiple TV shows.

 

Falcon Heene's vomitting during follow-up  interviews ,when he and his family are asked to clarify his previous statements, demonstrate his level of anxiety. Time will tell what really happened around this incident, but this might be another example of how exposing your child to media  attention may not be very helpful. Over time the child can also distort the truth of the occurences, through sheer anxiety alone.  Another interesting piece  in this story is the sibling's report that his brother was in the balloon. The sibling might also be anxious about his part in how this whole incident occured and was resolved. The sibling might be an interesting place for the investigators to start. As well as supporting the sibiling around his fears or confusions as well.

 

In the meantime, a Denver-area student that  claims to have worked with Richard Heene on a TV proposal, allegeds that this incident  was part of a hoax and that he has proof for  the highest bidder.

 

 

For more info about behavior, relationships and parenting visit me @:  www.marinfamilycounseling.com/

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