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Let’s say you slept with Ashley, nothing serious, just casual sex but she’s got a few friends and you wouldn’t mind testing their waters as well. What do you do? In my humble opinion, it is easier to sleep with a woman’s friends than it is a man’s, men are supposed to have a strong code. According to the code it is better to cheat on your girlfriend then to sleep with your friend’s girl, it just violates all types of trust and ethics amongst men. Women claim to have a similar code but they don’t. Remember most women say they hate women, and have very few women friends because women are shady; you must use this tidbit of knowledge to your advantage.
It’s all about strategy and being an observer. Now, the bff, bestie, whatever they are calling it today is not necessarily the one you want to go after because they tend to stick to the code but not always. The friends you really want to go for are the ‘outer limit’ friends. They are in the circle but usually they are more of a friend of a friend, who happens to be around a lot. The two may even have each other’s numbers and regularly hang out but they’re not as close as a bestie. These women have no loyalty, they’re down for whatever if you’re a young, attractive brother and you approach them with respect. Most women are eyeing the men their friends were dating anyway, to hear them tell it there is a shortage of good brothers out there.
In my personal opinion the jackpot are the sorority girls. I know several fellas who have been with at least 3 girls off of one line, let alone the whole chapter. Sorority girls are perfect because most times they didn’t join the organization for sisterhood anyway; they just always wanted to be --- so here they are. Sure they’re close to these women, some of them, but some of them fall into the outer limit friends again where their own jealousy of one another pervades logic.
How do you know one of her friends wants to smash the homie? Say your all at the club, but she (the girl you used to date) is not. The friend who shows you the most attention is probably the easiest to take down in the words of C. Breezy. Watch for the dance moves, if she’s backing it up on you, turning around and smiling while looking into your eyes. Well by golly let her have just one mo sip, just one mo sip and you could be looking for pimples on her booty.
It takes a man of tact and skill to pull off sleeping with groups of friends. You can’t be a hound who hollers at the whole group of friends because then you will be talked about in their secret meetings and this will cancel out your chances. You have to play it cool, the women will gladly violate the superficial relationship they have with these women for a chance to be with a “good man” and that is when you strike with your good looks, intelligence and charm. Remember play it cool, you can do it!
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