All right, now that I've shared the intro to the book, it's time to start to share the COR-system. This is the system to use to make decisions. The system can be applied to anything, including dating and relationships. Start by answering your Basic Life Concept Questions (BLC's). Now the BLC's can be applied to your whole life or any aspect thereof or any simple matter, such as redecorating a room. Here are the BLC's. Answer them for the topic of dating:
1) What do you need?
2) What's important to you?
3) What are your responsibilities?
4) What are your limitations?
Answer these and check back next week for the next step. Tip: Keep your answers simple! Here are my answers to the BLC's when applied to dating:
1) What do you need? Sex, human contact.
2) What’s important to you? Dating, women.
3) What are your responsibilities? Safe, consensual sex; her needs and wants; pay her attention
4) What are your limitations? Can’t control her attraction or manipulate her into feelings.
Your answers will most likely be different; hence, make sure you answer your own BLC's. For instance, it may be important to you that your date put out on the first date or be at least six feet or be Spanish or whatever else may wet your dating appetite. The above are simply my answers to the BLC's.