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Today’s women view and experience their sexuality from a different place than those of past generations. They are finding more freedom in seeking to have their needs met and are more adamant in their demand for sexual satisfaction. The age old quickiesand the dutiful nightly ritual hold little appeal or value. Being a hero in the bedroom now requires a working knowledge of women in general and the willingness to present them with the proper incentives and environment.
As men seek more satisfying sexual experiences they are discovering that they must offer their partner intellectual as well as physical stimulation. The inclusion of both mind and body creates a more holistic approach, which allows for heightened awareness and deeper levels of pleasure. Because sexuality, in its truest sense, is harbored in the mind, that is where our sexual journeys must begin. Touching the female psyche before attempting to touch the breast will offer the greater affect.
There are endless creative ways to provoke and capture sensual feelings without the benefit of any physical applications. Sex and sensuality for women are more complex and adventurous than the simplistic regimes of the past. Knowledge, intuition and creativity are the tools necessary to discover where it lives, how to awaken it, what it takes to stimulate it and how to nurture it so it will grow. A conscientious partner can create need and cravings by simply creating the proper thought processes. This offers new meaning to the old adage about the mind being a terrible thing to waste.
We all have hot spots in the psyche that can be triggered through the powers of suggestion, imagination and connection. (Emotional Buttons) Pushing those buttons engenders sensory and sexual sensations, which creates arousal and stimulation. We do this by channeling emotional reactions into sexuality; using one form of energy to spark another. Where the adventure leads is limited only by the efforts and imaginative designs of the individual. Nothing is written in stone and there is no regimented format. It’s freelance flight.
Women thrive in the presence and care of a man who knows what they want and need without ever having to ask for it. Knowledge is power! Getting to know your partner and what makes her tick and tingle is key. The ability to unearth these secret treasures comes from paying close attention to actions and reactions that might indicate you have your finger on a button or hot spot. Finding all of those buttons, exploring the endless possibilities and discovering the wondrous places they lead, takes patience and thought, but the rewards are immeasurable.
Having well-honed intuition is a valuable asset. Liken it, if you will, to a good quarter back with a natural talent for reading the defense. If you are in tune and aware of what your partner needs, wants and desires, without her having to explain it, you hold a powerful advantage. Possessing a good base knowledge and the ability to read the signals, offers a continual win, win proposition
A physical presence, a verbal exchange or a mere mental/emotional connection holds great power and can create an ‘altered mental state’, a place of intense arousal and euphoria. This level of sexual stimulation is achieved and sustained through mind play and manipulation. Sensual, erotic tasks are great tools for maintaining altered states. Rituals and sensual tasks, while away from your partner can help keep the buttons pushed, the bond strong, the connection flowing and offer sexual stimulation on an ongoing basis.
A creative imagination offers positive and pleasurable sexual experiences. Desires and cravings are products of the mind so it makes sense to use that power to its greatest advantage. Adding spice and adventure is the difference between sex and a sexual happening. Avoiding boredom is wise and enables the cravings for more to thrive. If it isn't good the first time, why would anyone want to repeat it? Taking your partner to a place where she has never been before and creating memories is the stuff heroes are made of.
The mind is the playground, the body the bonus. Take the mind the rest will follow. Women desire and crave the same sexual pleasures and fulfillment as those of men. It is time their voices were heard and their needs met.
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