Paint Seattle red, white and blue at an Election Day party

  Election night // Courtesy www.leadernewspapers.net

I was beginning to think the day would never come. But at last, Election Day is upon us. Looking back, it feels like ages ago we were overanalyzing Hillary's pantsuits and that time she sort of cried - maybe.  If you're like me, you've built up this election as nothing short of life-changing - but done nothing to think of how you actually want to celebrate (or drown away your sorrows).

Election Night gatherings aren't just about partying, though.  Living in New York, I found the 2004 elections brought my neighbors out in droves, eager to commiserate over a drink.  It was the first time I'd met them after a year of living in my building.  So if you're new in town, you might want to check out one of these free events - you're likely to find an impassioned group eager to talk community and politics.

Election Night Dance Party - Nectar Lounge - Happy hour starts at 5pm and extends all night if you show proof you voted (God bless America).  There'll also be food, DJs and lots of dancing.

The Stranger's Election Party - The Showbox - There won't be any DJs at this party hosted by Seattle sex columnist extraordinaire, Dan Savage.  But there will be lots of TVs, constant election coverage, booze, and Wifi. 

Election Night Returns Party - Central Cinema - Cozy up at this community space that'll be equipped with a large screen and election returns coverage all day long.  And did I mention the pizza and pitchers of beer?  Comfort to the max.

The Showbox SoDo Election Party - Sip discount drinks at the Showbox SoDo lounge for yet another free event that gives new meaning to the phrase, "hey, it's a free country."  You can even surround yourself with election madness, covered on six TVs.

Election Night Special - Town Hall - Celebrate your inner political dork by hanging out with, well, other political dorks.  If you want a break from election coverage, you can participate in their political trivia contest ... complete with prizes.

But most of all, if you really value being part of a strong community, make sure you get out and vote - especially on all those initiatives and measures that influence our daily lives in a big way.