Ah, the poor, mistreated merlot. The movie "Sideways" did it no particular favors. But it's on the cusp of seeing better days (again).

See the movie, but appreciate the wine.
Merlot's image has taken some blows in the past few years. From being slammed in movies to Merlot-hater groups that sprouted to rebel against the growing popularity of the grape, Merlot's reputation has been unfairly maligned.
Everyone remembers the line from the wine-lover in the Oscar-winning film "Sideways" where he proclaims, "If anyone orders Merlot, I'm leaving!" just before entering a restaurant for a double-date. The drink of choice for the character, Miles, played by Paul Giamatti, was Pinot Noir. But the funny thing is that at the end of the movie Miles drinks the dusty bottle of 1961 Chateau Cheval Blanc from Bordeaux, France, that he had been saving for a special occasion. That wine is a blend of wine with about half of the mix consisting of -- you guessed it -- Merlot.
That's because Merlot is one of the most amazing red wines, with an ability to be a bold, super-ageworthy wine in one bottle, and a lighter, fruitier red that would pair well with burgers or barbecue in another bottle. So I encourage you to give it a try. It would be fun to have a party and buy three or four different bottles of Merlot with examples of the different styles the wine can produce. A knowledgeable wine store clerk could easily point you in the direction of some different styles of Merlot.
Here are a few I have found tasty and suggest you give a try next time you're in the mood for a decent bottle of red.