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Five Tips for New Friends-With-Benefits
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If you’re new to the game of a friends-with-benefits situation, sometimes it can be a little awkward as to what you can or cannot do. So, here are a few simple tips to help you if you’re new to this kind of relationship.
1. Watch out for jealousy. If you’re in a fwb situation, chances are your friend may have multiple partners. Try not to get jealous of the others and, if possible, talk with the other partners. If your fwb relationship is a healthy one, all those involved should know about the other partners and where they stand.
2. Remember that there are no strings. In a true friends-with-benefits relationship, there is nothing to tie you down to one partner. You are there to have a good time and get your needs fulfilled, not to make too many rules and regulations. Take things in stride and talk about things before hand so everyone is on the same page.
3. Make a routine. If things between you and your partner are starting to seem too much like a relationship, create a routine with your partner. This can mean meeting at the other person’s house instead of meeting before hand for drinks. Sometimes, meeting in public places first can trick your brain into thinking you are on a date, not with a friend. So, in order to avoid that, try agreeing on one place to meet and stick to it. Buying gifts can also seem too much like you are dating, so avoid doting upon your partner too much if that wasn’t part of the deal.
4. Don’t nag your partner. Chances are, your fwb is looking for a physical relationship, not someone to tell them what they can or cannot do. Make sure you don’t get on their case about certain things. Instead, just be a good friend support them when they need it, and only give your advice when they ask for it.
5. Remember, you are friends first! A fwb is not just about a physical relationship, it’s about being a supportive and caring friend.
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