
I have never been one to pay much attention to celebrity news but if you weed through the nonsense (and that usually takes a lot of weeding) you might find a nugget or two of useful information.
Katy Perry recently wore something specifically tailored to her boyfriend's liking at the MTV Europe Music Awards. She even went so far as to have his name put on her backside.
Now before you start thinking that I'm going to suggest you try this same thing let me say that I'm merely going to recommend that, on occasion, you do put on something just for him.
When I mentioned this to a friend she said that back in her 20s she would've had no problem putting her man's name on her posterior but these days she could fit his first and last name back there and she doubted the effect would be the same. Forget about the name ladies. I'm talking about wearing something just a little bit outside your comfort zone in the safety of your own home. A shirt with a neckline three inches lower than what you're used to. A dress that accents those curves that you're used to hiding. Something a little see-through. Maybe some high heels. And if you already wear heels to work, try some very high heels.
Don't be afraid to go to "those stores" that sell what are politely referred to as "marital aids". You may be surprised to see that they offer a variety of clothes that aren't too over the top. Take one of your friends with you, it's a fun way to spend an afternoon.
Start slowly, you don't want to give your husband a heart attack. Maybe just something a little provocative at first and, depending on his reaction, you can raise the stakes from there. If you really go all out the first time it's hard to top that performance.
And husbands, put away the camera, don't make your wife more uncomfortable than she may already be. Let her know how beautiful she looks and how much you appreciate the effort. Anything less will guarantee you will not see her in any such thing ever again. The better the reaction she receives from you the more likely you are for a repeat performance.
Let me know how you have kept the fun in your marriage by leaving a comment below. I love hearing new ideas and I'm always open to questions or suggestions. Thanks!