Why she shouldn't call him

June 19, 11:30 AMRelationship Advice ExaminerJennifer Tjon

Dear Jennifer,
I went out on a great date with a great guy. I felt like we really hit it off and had a lot in common. He seemed like he was having fun. That was three days ago and I haven't heard from him. Should I call?
Sincerely,
Waiting by the Phone

Dear Waiting by the Phone,
No. Plain and simple. He'll call you when he wants to see you again. If he doesn't call you, that means he's not interested. Feminists everywhere are getting their panties in a bunch but men, especially when it comes to dating, are best left to their own devices. Here's what will happen if you call him. Scenario A: he doesn't answer and you leave a message. He never calls you back and your self esteem plunders. Scenario B: he calls you back and you date for a period of time before he runs off with the girl he really wants and chose to go after on his own impetus. You can make every excuse in the book: he's busy with work, he lost your number, but if he wants to call he'll find a way. You should get out there and get busy. Make sure you occupy your time with fun activities with friends or by yourself. You just might meet the guy who's going to make you forget about Mr. NeverCall.
Yours Truly,
Jennifer

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