Hsiao-Ching Chou is a partner at Suzuki + Chou Communimedia, where she serves as a senior consultant in communications. For nearly eight years prior, she was the award-winning food editor at the Seattle Post-Intelligencer newspaper. She and her television producer husband live in Seattle with their daughter, who was born in October 2006.
1. Take the children for at least day. Take care of them all day. That means getting them out of bed, dressed, fed and started on their activities. Don't forget to feed them lunch and dinner. Then get them bathed and ready for bed. Finally, put them bed. That means following the bedtime routine that's been established. It does not mean sitting on the couch in pajamas, watching TV until the kids falls asleep.
2. Spa treatments. Plural.
3. Quiet time -- whether that means taking the kids out of the house so Mom can have personal time or sending Mom out for personal time.
4. Cook dinner for a week.
5. Gift certificate to her favorite store.
6. Commit to spending more time with the kids, without being prompted.