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Ten ways to raise your energy vibrations if you have the angsty blues

November 4, 1:04 AMMiami Relationship Angst ExaminerSandra Holstad
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Credit: Hot looking surfer type : Vinci Alonso 

If you have been dumped, or cheated on or are just feeling the loneliness blues, welcome to the club of the 21st century. It seems that relationship angst of all types is De rigeur at the moment. From lousy friends, to scoundrel boyfriends/husbands, crappy bosses and pain in the patootie colleagues. It just seems that everybody is a pain in the patooti nowadays. Now, how do we get ourselves out of this mucky mire? All this negativity just dragging the rest of us civilized beings down with them.

Well, here are some suggestions to raise your vibrations:

1. Lose the friend like PRONTO!

2. Quit your job like PRONTO! OK, now that might be a little harder than losing the friend. But do start looking for a better work environment so you don't come home everyday with your bottom lip dragging on the floor. That is a waste of vampy red lipstick, it should be on someone's lips not the floor.

3. Volunteer at some charity. You just might meet a new friend and maybe even Mr Right and not Mr Right Now. But heck, if it is Mr Right Now, why not! A hot distraction is a hot distraction. Beats moping around the house for an ex that just is soooo not worth even batting an eyelash over.

4. Sign up for social on-line group and meet like minded people who have the same interests as you. Hopefully, in your area, so you can go out dancing and lift your vibrations.

5. Yoga is a great way to destress from that lousy boss and catty colleague and downer friend and cheating ex. Plus, the instructors are oh soooo cute and flexible. An added bonus that keeps your mind off your ex. Ex who now? Plus you might meet another friend that seeks a more peaceful vibration, that is why she is there.

6. Take up cooking, art, or pottery classes. Envision yourself as Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze in Ghost. Now, that's hot. Hopefully, the instructor is hot too. Nevertheless, the feel of soft, pliable cool clay in your hands is such a welcome relief from getting tendinitis and carpal tunnel syndrome from banging away on the work computer all day.

7. Go retail shopping! What the heck! You are already up to your eyeballs in debt. Another couple of hundred dollars really isn't going to make a difference. But, you are going to feel oh so good after when you are dancing in your spicy red shoes with Mr Hot Tamales in that swanky new club with that matching bag. Maybe you will even get a nookie session and all that stress that has been building up is alllll gone now. Just write it off as money spent towards a massage therapist. Now, these are the best kind of massages aren't they? And no batteries required.

8. Go to the gym. Health conscious people are such a turn on. Plus you will be turning yourself on with the way you look after beating up the machines with all your angst from all the above mentioned people. And gym instructor usually are HOTTIES!! Gym, body, six pack no make that eight pack, need I say more? And no, I am not talking about beers now. Although, that might be just the thing to have right after the gym with Mr Hot Bod.

9. Go snorkeling or learn to dive. What better way to de stress and look at beautiful things that don't give you an attitude or snarky comments. Do watch out for the sharks though. They are silent but deadly. The worst kind really!

10. Learn to surf. Getting all that aggro angst out of you while you ride the waves is such an adrenaline rush. While learning, all the hot surfer guys will be more than happy to help a babe ride a board. Talking about boards, surfer types usually have washboards of a stomach. Yes, Ripped with a capital R! So, not only have you learnt to conquer the waves, but you most likely have conquered Mr Ripped Surfer which means that you show up to work the next day with a golden glow all over you that says "You can't touch me! Sssssssssssssssst! Sizzle" to your a*&^%$#  boss, snide catty colleague, scoundrel ex, and drain-a-poo friend. Thus banishing the angsty blues once and for all. Cos you are now a Babe In Total Control of Herself. READ: B.I.T.C.H!

Now, the word bitch in any other context is derogatory. And should someone call you that, he should get a huge smack across his face. But, in this case, it's a morale boosting energy raising vibration that we all love. So, girl, you go out there, and be a huge B.I.T.C.H and enjoy your life and freedom away from all that mucky mire. You will only be thanking yourself that you didn't sit home and mope for Mr Dick Head, Ms Biatch Catty colleague, Ms Drain A. Poo friend, Mr A. Hole boss.In other words:  YOU GO GIRLFRIEND!!!


© 2009 Sandra Holstad. All rights reserved

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