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How to know when it is time to divorce

September 28, 6:38 PMDivorce ExaminerKim Hess
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Should you stay or should you go?

So many people have asked the question how does one know when it's time to get divorced?  Many men and women struggle with this question and the decision they will have to make.  If you or your children are in danger,physically, emotionally, or both,  then the answer is to leave immediately.  If not, one must  contemplate this decision and know that it will have a lifetime of repercussions, some pleasant, some not so pleasant.

 

One must first ask themselves what is going on in the marriage right now to consider divorce?  Is the situation unbearable?  Is the marriage intact just because of the children?  Is there a lack of love and intimacy?  Is the marriage just boring?  Does the good outweigh the bad?  Can professional, or spiritual guidance help to identify problems and concerns in the relationship and help to fix them? Can you imagine your future without your spouse realistically?  Can you imagine yourself  happier, more fulfilled without your current  partner?  Can you imagine a better marriage if some solutions were tried?

 

It is a must that when considering divorce that one has thoroughly thought through what life will be like as a divorced person, and not just imagine that the life will be greener on the other side because their spouse is no longer there.  Upon deep introspection, one can devise, and ultimately know, if it's time to divorce.

 

 

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