.jpg)
My granddaughter arrives for a visit this weekend. It's time to assess my house and make certain it's safe for an active and inquisitive toddling 16-month-old.
My daughter rolls her eyes at this. She's the calmest mother you'll ever meet, despite growing up with me. I was an anxious mom. Where other people saw a nicely appointed home, I saw a minefield of sharp and pointy objects, choking devices and deadly poisons. (In all fairness to me, work experiences in a hospital emergency room and for a plaintiff's attorney will do that to a person.)
It's a wonder my oldest child learned to speak at all. My vocabulary during her first three years of life consisted of monosyllabic words like "NO!" and "STOP." As she got older I added syllables and shouted words like "UH-OH" and "DANGER." By the time my second and third daughters arrived I calmed down a lot... maybe I was just exhausted... but now, decades later, concern for my grandchild has reawakened old anxieties about child safety in the home.
A little research shows that things haven't changed that much -- though far more childproofing products are available these days and the list of things to worry about has grown . Here are some tips and a host of resources for more information:
And, just in case:
Frankly, since my granddaughter does not live with me and because we watch her constantly, I am not going to go overboard. I think if I follow the tips I've shared with you and the information in the following links, I can keep the terror at bay, shrieking (mine) to a minimum, and visits to the emergency room non-existent.
For more information about keeping your grandchild safe in your home or anyone else's, visit these sites:
Share your ideas for childproofing and ways to keep kids safe. Leave a comment.
Note: Click on the Subscribe button below and you'll receive an email each time the DC Grandparenting Examiner publishes a new article.