
Sometimes it’s better to be wise than to be right. Sometimes it’s better to behave well than to win some sort of symbolic boasting-rights victory that actually ends up hurting you or someone else in your life. Your April horoscope says this month will present you with some of those occasions, Virgo.
This month it will be natural for you to feel argumentative and think that others are provoking you. With both Mars and Uranus transiting your opposite sign and opposing Saturn in Virgo, you may feel like clobbering somebody, and you won’t feel like that has nothing to do with your being mean. Rather, you’ll feel self-righteously justified and figure that the other poor sap just plain has it coming.
However, you’ve got other planets set up in a way that makes you feel vulnerable and suspicious, and you really may not be the best judge right now of whether someone else is in the wrong. As sensible and realistic as you are about your own point of view, you have a great deal of trouble walking a mile in someone else’s moccasins and imagining in any sort of truly illustrative way what things are like for others.
Before you break a relationship that you might later wish you had maintained, consider the long view. Think about an older and wiser version of yourself, looking back over your life, Think about how you will want to remember yourself living through this time in the most loving way to create the best outcome for all. Your perspective regains its balance in the last half of the month and communications improve. By month’s end things will be going much more smoothly for you.