Romance 101: How to seduce your partner to watch the ball games with you (videos)

October 3, 6:36 PMPhiladelphia Romance ExaminerGina Alzate

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Do you know how to seduce your partner to watch the ball games with you?  Have you ever wondered if it is at all possible that your partner can enjoy the games, too?  If you are one of the many who feels this way, there is a way to bring your partner in your circle. 

The biggest challenge to overcome is your partner feeling excluded as if taking a backseat to your passion of watching the ball games.  The second challenge for you to overcome is to teach your partner the basics of the ball games.  Your keywords here are involvement and patience. 

Here are a few tips to keep your romance alive during any ball game season.

1.  Take your partner on a date to watch a ball game with you either at home or to a stadium.  Make a big deal out of it and just plan on the two of you.   For starters, plan on having your date at home, make it a ritual to have a dinner and ball game, perhaps have a pizza party with wings during the game.  Dress up for the event and encourage your partner to do the same.  Gift your partner your team's jerseys, scarf, sweatshirt or tees. Order lunch or dinner in making mealtime simple and fun.  Make sure you have fruits as well.  Then, plan on feeding each other fruits dipped in chocolate.

2.  During commercial breaks, pay attention to your partner. Engage in foreplay, deep kissing, fun massaging, anything that spells love and romance involving your bodies.  Be close to one another as you resume to watch the game.  Brainstorm and plan on an activity your partner would like to do with you at a later time.  This gesture will make your partner feel appreciated and love will return to you in the most unusual places.  It is important that you follow through with your plans as that enhances your partner's trust that there is balance in how you spend time together.

3.  Teach your partner the rules of the game, how the game is won, who the favorite players are and why are they worth watching.  This is done best when watching an actual game.  When your partner asks questions in the heat of the game, take the time to answer patiently.  This is critical as you will build your partner's confidence to ask what is not understood.  Expect questions to be asked in the most inopportune time.  Consider this as an investment for future fun viewing with your partner. Once your partner learns the rules and the basics of the game, it would be easier to enjoy the games at much later dates.  Moreover, your partner will see your patience and much love will come back to you.  You can see this expression of love in the eyes, smile and touch in response to your kindness.

4.  Share with your partner why you follow a specific team and who is your favorite player. Involve your partner on the current news. Include the team and players by name in your conversations, to include updates on scores and ranking, and the team's challenges and dilemmas to win the top spot.  Make this a weekly event that can be expected.  Involve your partner with the planning for dinner menu and anything fun after the game.  Make sure you do something together your partner would love for you to engage after the game.  If it is a walk in the park that is requested, then by all means enjoy this fun time.  If your partner heads out to the kitchen to clear the table, follow and help out.  This is a very endearing gesture which might garner you another game to watch together the next time.

5.  Be patient as you describe the high feeling to witness a team win, how an overwhelming sense of pride comes over you.  Let your partner choose a team to follow and help get started in rooting for a team to win.  If your partner chooses a team that opposes yours, celebrate the difference and have a healthy competition.  Make a game out of it and keep scores.  The one who chose the winning team gets to call the shots at making love that evening. Perhaps grant a fantasy or two, from which you would definitely benefit as well.  If either one of your team makes it to the championship, root for each other's team.  If  that team wins, make plans together to go on a beautiful romantic getaway when the ball game season is over. 

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By Gina Alzate, who is also the National Holistic Travel Examiner and the National Interracial Relationship  Examiner.  She is a Travel Consultant and Cruise Planner with World Tours and Cruises, and she leads holistic and metaphysical workshops with Holistic Life Designs.

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