When a parent is unable to stay home alone - Consider adult day care

November 30, 10:24 PMWilmington Family Relationships ExaminerAnnmarie Frio

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My mother suffered a traumatic brain injury in 1995 and ever since she has been assessed by doctors at a 2nd to 3rd grade level.  Upon her release from Magee Rehabilitation in Philadelphia, I was panicked for how to handle her needs during the day because she could not stay alone, and I was working to help care for her.  A case worker at Magee recommended adult day care.  Initially, my mom was unreceptive and refused to go.  However, we had no choice because I could not stay home with her nor could I afford a personal care attendant. 

I contacted our county Department for the Aging and enlisted their assistance in locating an adult day care program and senior center that would benefit my mom's needs.  While she initially despised the idea, she now refuses to miss a day of the program.  It is crucial for individuals with memory problems, mental and physical disabilities to participate in a daily routine, which an adult day care program provides.  Assistance can be provided by the Department for Aging to offset costs associated with such programs and the transportation to attend the facility.  Your County's Department of Aging is a great resource for those looking for assistance in caring for aging and/or disabled parents.