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AP Phot: Steven Senne
Dear, Cini
My so called "gf" just got back a couple of weeks ago. When she got back, one of her friends, who is a slutty, controlling bitch who gets her screwed up in the head a bit. And as such etc., she was somewhat forced to have sex with someone else. She is sick and worn out when she gets back from boot camp and she told me this earlier. Since we’ve been together for a long time, should I let it pass and hope things improve, which they are, but it’s slow. And, how would I know if she is doing it with someone else, maybe?
Signed, Confused
Dear, Confused
If you want a woman you can trust, she doesn't sound like she's trustworthy. If you just want someone to hang out with etc., that's probably about all you can expect from her. When she's not being lured to hang out with someone else.
If a relationship is what you are truly looking for, then you are with the wrong girl. If I were you, I would end the relationship. I would end it for several reasons. If your girlfriend is a weak minded woman who can be “forced to have sex with someone else,” then you will never be able to truly trust if she is faithful to you. Is that the kind of wife you want to have? A woman who won’t choose to go against a so-called friend and keep her legs closed? Wouldn’t it be better to choose a woman who would choose to do the right thing and remain faithful to you and the relationship? Now, if she was truly forced, then she should be filing charges for sexual assault against her perpetrator and dumping her so-called friend who wouldn’t stand up and protect her from such a vicious attack.
When deciding whether or not to be in a relationship, you need to access it for the long haul and ask yourself, “Is this person husband/wife material? Can I depend on this person and trust them with my very life?”
Signed, Cini
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