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Dear, Cini
I got my live-in girlfriend pregnant. She has one of my kids but I don't love her anymore! She has kids from her previous marriages too and she cheated on her husband to get with me. Yeah, I know, I stole her from her husband... I'm the devil.
Now she expects us to get married. She's the whiney, bitchy, overbearing type...I didn't know she would turn out like this, I can't stand that s---.
Sign, Need Advice
Dear, Need Advice
As I dissect the information you have given, this is what it boils down to: you have more than one child, one with this current live-in girlfriend and one or others with one or other women. This live-in girlfriend has obviously been married more than once because, “She has kids from her previous marriages,” emphases on marriages, plural.
As adults, we need to take responsibility for the choices that we make. It’s not fair to a child to have to grow up without their dad in the house because you decided to be the devil and, “[steel] her from her husband.” You need to man-up, marry the girl, and provide a stable home environment for your child, or at least this one anyway.
There are consequences and repercussions to all decisions that we make. How are we to teach our children responsibility when we ourselves shirk away from it? You chose as the mother of your child a woman who did not respect the vows she made in marriage and yet you complain that she is, “… the whiney, bitchy, overbearing type.” Each morning you need to wake up and think of your child ahead of yourself. You have to pay to play.
And for the future, it’s important to remember what we learned in sex education class: Sex Makes Babies.
Sign, Cini
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