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Reader's Question:
I have a brother who's friend I'm interested in and he treats me like I'm young when my brother is around but it's different when we're instant messaging or texting (he acts like he interested in me).
What should I do to fix my relationship with this guy?
Girl's Answer:
You know, my brother's best friend liked me in high school, and I think it was hard for him to really show his interest when my brother was around. So, this guy acting different with you and around your brother isn't necessarily a bad thing. He doesn't want to get on your brother's bad side. He wants to respect you as his friend's little sister. Let me ask you, do you have a close relationship with your brother? Does your brother know you like his friend or that his friend likes you? Use your brother as your ally. You can find out more information about this guy through him-- like what his intentions are, if he's a good person to date, if he's interested in you... things like that.
Or if you're not close to your brother, you can ask him, "How would you feel if your friend was interested in me?" or "How would you feel if I was interested in your friend?"
After you clear the air with your brother, you can tell this guy, "Look, you can treat me the same when you're around my brother. He's totally cool with what's going on." (if he is cool) "I don't like that you treat me differently when he's around and when you're texting/messaging me. Decide how you want to treat me, as your equal or as my brother's little sister. Then just stick with it."
When you expect to be respected by men, they usually follow suite:)
Men respect me because that is the kind of treatment I expect. I never let men get away with bad behavior. You have to tell yourself, "I know I am a good catch. Any man who is worthy of my time has to realize that and treat me well. If not, I am strong enough to walk away." If this guy is worthy of your affection, then he will not be ashamed to broadcast his feelings for you.
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