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Simply holding hands bring you closer together
I don’t think lesbians are the only ones who suffer from “bed death.”, I’ve know gay and straight couples who go through the same thing, but lesbians have a reputation for losing the libido after a few years together. Does your relationship have to end up in bed death? Not if you don’t want it to. Like most things, sustaining a healthy sexual relationship takes work. Here are some tips for keeping sex in your lesbian relationship.
Call your lover at work. Tell her she has been on your mind all day and you are really looking forward to seeing her. Drop a little hint about what is on your mind. Mention something to the effect of "I have a special idea tonight" or "I was thinking maybe we could try out something new tonight" Leave this open and it starts her imagination.
Don’ tell her "I'm trying to put spark back into our relationship because you've become boring. Take a shower when you get home so that we can get at it like our neighbor’s dog.” May not have the effect you are looking for.
When she gets home greet her at the door. Grab whatever is in her hands and set it on the floor. Hold one of your lovers hands and give a quick, soft kiss on the side of her lips. You want to just touch her lips with yours.
As you pull away keep eye contact for a few moments, smile, then slowly slip your hands away from theirs and grab whatever your lover had walked in with put the things away for her. Yes, she will be shocked because you haven't done this since your first few months together. Go with it.
By now you have her attention and she are going to be very curious where this is going from here. Ask her to sit down you while you finish dinner and serve her a drink. Make eye contact keep the conversation light. Grab her attention, look deeply into her eyes, smile then break away.
Leave the talk about work, kids, family, anything that even remotely reminds you of your everyday lives outside this moment. Instead lead the conversation to memories of when you first started dating, tell them I miss the old us. The way we were when we first.
Prepare your lover dinner and and while eating keep the conversation on your good times together.
After your meal, suggest your lover go and take a warm bath or shower. While she is gone tidy up from the meal and light the candles in the bedroom.
When you have are done with the candles, join her in the bathroom, help her dry off. Dry her back, brush her hair, offer to rub lotion on her.
Talk to her about what you want to do to her, remind her that she is sexy and desirable. Kissing and caressing her from head to her toes will get you started.
Take your time before returning to the bedroom. You didn't go straight to the bed the first few times your made out, don't do it this time either.
When it is time to go to the bedroom, lead your lover by their hand and pull them into bed with you. You should be able to handle it from here.
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