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Making the first move after the first date
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So you had great first date! The two of you laughed, talked, and really connected. Now, the only stressful concern left is when to call.
It's mind boggling when it comes to the dating game- or the phone game, especially when you really like the person and want to continue that bond you made. Unfortunately, it is hard to tell what will work. All you can do is give it your best shot, but don't be too open and don't play too hard-to get.
Yes, it will be hard to find a happy medium. Stay focused on one goal: to gradually get to know the other person. So, when you have a date idea, ask them before the weekend approaches, but don't call to ask them as soon as you get home from your first date unless the plans are for the next day or so.
Also, if they are not able to understand your methods of communication such as calling just for a quick chat, or an occassional text to say hi, then you will have difficulty in your communication, period. People get along in relationships when they have an agreement on how and when to communicate.
One more thing! If the person really likes you they WILL answer the phone for you! There won't be any games about why they don't answer the phone. Here's the test: if you call mid-day and they do not respond to you until 2 or 3 days later, then they are not that intio you. If they respond same day, then you are in good standing!
Good luck!
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