
It is Bridal Fashion Week in New York City and all the bridal magazine editors are front row and center at the shows. Brides being wed in 2009 are closely following all designer coverage - Melissa Sweet, Christos, Vera.
"Wedding season" begins in the early spring when brides are finalizing the guest list, running to fittings, and dealing with bridesmaids who are unhappy with the gown selection. Flowers, colors, and music fill the weeks before the wedding but what about the couples who have made the decision to skip all the revelry for an appointment at City Hall?
I was at the City Hall downtown this past Friday to find an array of couples fidgeting as they listened closely for their names to be called. Does a City Hall wedding suggest that you need not take the time to plan your attire for that life-altering moment? Throw on a pair of jeans and a shirt and show up at a City Hall for an hour wait and a 5 minute service? It most certainly does not.

So what exactly is appropriate for a City Hall wedding? I wouldn't quite propose a fullout white
gown complete with a train and
veil. An abbreviated combo that reflects your personality should set the mood for your day - classic, jazzy, chic, or cool.
A two piece suit or a sheath dress in white, ivory, or black is a telling choice. Have fun with your shoes and perhaps add a pop of color as did bride, Ingrid, wore - a purple croc slingback. The couples pictured got it right.
What not to do? Stay away from bridesmaid dresses. It is important to look like the bride and not a single lost bridesmaid. The simplicity of bridesmaid dresses are designed not to outstage the bride. Specific colors also tend to portray a bridesmaid and can be tricky to pull off, such as pastels. If you are in doubt, shy away.
The groom. A groom's selection is less hairy. A suit that compliments the bride's attire and a boutinir is appropriate. If your fashion senses are well above the average guy, then perhaps a smart vest and tie and your choice of slacks is a good choice for you.
Whether the ceremony is held in a church or at City Hall, it is your big day. Make it memorable. Select a flower girl or boy as did newly weds, Ingrid and Gio. Honor a close friend by requesting their presence as your maid of honor and best man. These traditions make the day that much more special.
Don't forget a photographer; he doesn't have to be a professional. Remember it isn't the number of guests on the list that affirms a marriage. It should be everything with which you are comfortable.

