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Relationships 101: What are the three types of people to avoid in relationships
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The Emotionally Unstable
Some people jump into relationships for the emotional stability and bond that is produced in a relationship. They attach themselves to the next available person, and can have the tendency to start off too quickly, too fast. These types of people may have been hurt in previous relationships, where the person may have cheated on them profusely. They do not want to cope with the reality, and develop a new fantasy from the current relationship. These are the types of people who will call you fifteen times a day, just to make sure you are not with someone else. They will even text you fifty times a day to extend their, “I love you’s,” and they become infuriated when you speak your frustration about the relationship. They will develop a sense of over exhausting their pain onto you from previous relationships. They do not trust you, and have a tendency of always looking over your shoulder. These are people I would avoid at all means. Nothing can develop from these types of relationships, except a headache.
The Controller
You may notice this person takes interest in everything you like. These are the types of people that will go out of their way to impress you. They also tend to move a little quick, and skip the first few steps within the relationship. They have already invited you to special occasions with their families, and planned couple retreats. They seem to be very elegant, and persuasive to your family and friends, but you can tell something is not quite right. They like to be the boss in every situation, and they already have planned all future dates. They may even mention at some point to change your appearance. They are very good actors, they have captivated everyone you know, and may have even fooled you. They can construct themselves to seem like the perfect person. Unfortunately, yet again they are not.
The Charmer
These individuals are very good at knocking you off your feet. They always have the right words, and no matter what they do, they can make you fall back under their spell. These people can also be very self-loathing in their ways. They will have you in their life when they want you their, and push you out when they rather do something else. They can also turn into moochers, so be careful. Their cunning ways are sometimes hard to differentiate. You always seem to be on the sidelines within the relationship. These are the ones you should not trust the most, especially with your emotions. They will take you on a roller coaster ride. One moment you’re in heaven’s gate, the next you are on the edge of agony.
These are all predetermined relationships that will eventually turn for the worse. Hopefully you can single out these relationships before you get too deep. Be cautious and attempt to look at the relationship from an outside perspective.
