Daily dose tip number 3 on ways to keep your relationship hot and sexy

July 12, 2:59 PMColorado Springs Sex and Relationships ExaminerJami Wright

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Relationships can sometimes be hard to keep exciting, many couples get caught up in the comfort and can sometimes forget how to get that sexiness and hotness that the relationship started on.  This is number seven in an article series that offers some help in getting that spiciness back.  You have already relearned to flirt and use foreplay outside of the bedroom, you should be practicing techniques to disagree and not argue angry, and you have learned to use pet names and secret codes to bring some sweetness back into the daily grind.  For all seven tips please view the top ten link located on my home page.

Today we are going to remember the importance of letting your partner know you are thinking of them.  This article will give you some great ideas on sending your partner a random "I love you," or "I am thinking of you" message.  As mentioned earlier people often get comfortable and set into habits in relationships.  If the scenario below sounds familiar this will help you bring some sexiness back into your relationship. 

You get up in the morning, shower and brush your teeth, you get dressed and run down the stairs for a quick breakfast.  After slamming down your breakfast sandwich you kiss your partner on the cheek as you yell a good bye over your shoulder and run out of the house to a busy day at work.

You are most likely in a comfort cycle.  Spice things up and surprise your partner once in a while by letting them know you are thinking of them or how you feel.  Here are some great ways to make this happen.

• Write a quick note on the bathroom mirror with lip stick.
• Place a thinking of you card in your partner's jacket pocket or purse.
• Put a special note in the lunch you packed them.
• send a flirty or a love you text in the middle of the day letting them know you are thinking of them.
• leave a love message on your partner's voice mail throughout the day.

All of these simple gestures can mean so much to your partner.  You may not know that you are in a comfort cycle but your partner is most likely feeling it.  Keeping a strong and loving connection with each other will help you to continue to spice things up in your relationship.

As always if you have more ideas or would like to comment please do so below.  If you want to contact me by email with questions, concerns, or to tell your own story please feel free to email me.  Please make sure you check out the other top ten articles for more fun ideas on spicing up your relationship and as always thank you for reading and participating in my column.