
Here is an update of what has happened with the different targets I have encountered during this experiment with my wing ladies.
Target #1 from Targeting Men : Nothing happened between us. I decided I was not really interested, but have kind of kept in contact, because I hate being the bad guy. We text every once in a blue moon to see what is going on with each other for the weekend. He recently friended me on Facebook, but I did not accept in fear that he may find out I wrote about him. Eek!
Target #2 from Old Relationships Damaging New Relationships: He never called. I think this is probably due to my awkward exit from the bar and since he knew my “Ex”.
Target #3 and #4 from Male Signals: The father never emailed me, but Juan and I keep in touch. We went out one night before I flew to New Jersey. Yes… we ended up kissing. It was sweet, but this Latin lover shall only be a friend. I enjoyed our kiss, but did not feel the sparks.
Target #5 from Getting a Date, A Date, Hanging Out with my Date: Tionn and I got together again before I went to visit my parents. Our last goodbye was a hug with a kiss on the cheek. Sweet and appropriate for our unnamed relationship. I am concerned about the age difference, but I think I will allow this to ride out just as we have been doing. No labels or expectations, just two people who enjoy good company.
Target # 6 from Philadelphia Men and Platonic Friends: We are still in touch. I find Mr. DJ to be a great time. I have made it clear several times that I am not interested in forming a relationship with him. When I do visit Philadelphia I will be visiting him only as a friend.
Target # 7 from Philadelphia Men and The Perfect Date: If I were to actually stay in Philadelphia this would be a relationship I would be interested in seeing where it goes. Stones is a sweetheart and my type. Unfortunately distance does not allow us to continue what we started. We have talked on the phone a few times and made non-committed plans of seeing each other in the future.
Target # 8 from The Great Date: J and I are getting together for a little mini vacation with friends. This is my test to see if he is more than just talk. I will let you all know how it goes. Cross your fingers for me!