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Men, drama-free relationships do not exist
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Gay or Hetero:
Ad after ad displayed in the profiles of dating members will state men are looking for a "drama-free" relationship. Problem here - that does not exist.
Guys, before you hang me out to dry, listen to the argument. Per Merriam-Webster, drama is defined: as a state, situation, or series of events involving interesting or intense conflict of forces. Interesting and intense? Hello? Isn't this exactly what you want i.e. unless you want some deadened, non-exciting relationship without passion?
I suspect that when men say "drama-free" they are referring to: women who make mountains out of molehills without provocation; women who are constantly suspicious without reason; and women who create drama with their ex-husbands or baby daddy and their new man.
But let me also address the gay male culture on this. Some will argue that gay men and drama seem to go hand in hand but, gay men who make the drama-free comment are also saying the same things about their mates i.e. not wanting men who will pick up their phones and call up every male in the directory wanting to know a detailed history of their partner's relationship with them.
And for those two paragraphs above, I totally understand the drama-free comment. However, men, you are counting yourself out of a mate who could give you unequivocal passion if you make blanket statements like this. Great passion isn't only for the bedroom. You have to be careful of what you are really asking for. A passionate person is likely to be passionate about everything, from expressing their unhappy feelings to flipping your body over and making your toes curl.
It has been my experience that men who write/make "drama comments" are usually the same men who create drama and are often caught in a web of deception. To these particular men, instead of writing the drama-free comments, write this: "Looking for a passionate ignorant woman/man who doesn't mind me cheating and lying but who would love me albeit any evidence contrary to my expressed feelings."
Yeah right, in a perfect world these men would come with a sign like that.... oh wait, they do... they ask for drama-free!
Ladies and gents, be you and sane and when you feel like snooping is your only option - jet and be out. If you are being called drama because you are passionate then, be your fabulous drama self and be proud. Let that dude find himself Laura Ingles - that is not you and don't try and conform. There is always someone out there who will understand your passionate nature and is willing to listen to your extremely exuberant yet coherent emotional concerns for an equally passionate physical relationship.
Have fun and happy drama filled dating!
P.S. Stay away from potential mates who have a habit of engaging in physical violence and/or property damage. Also people who are clinically disturbed/ clinically depressed/ or any other suspected or confirmed mental illness are not drama persons. Call 911 and direct them to the nearest physician/medical facility. The situations expressed in this P.S. are no laughing matter and should be seen as more than just drama. Flee immediately!
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