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So you see your next target and you make your move. "...But for some reason, she doesn't seem to respond the way I would like. But why?" - Hunter without a clue, Everywhere USA
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My dear Hunter, it is all in your approach. However, that may not be the only reason she's not responding favorably but, let's assume the following are points of fact:
- Your personal hygiene is on point.
- Your sense of style is of this decade.
- Your "visage" will not make babies cry.
That's just the initial snapshot view. Now, you have to open your mouth and say something that will not make her walk away or not make her want to slap your mouth shut.
Victory's suggestions:
1. Observe her from a distance. If you can, try and listen to what she's talking about with other people to get a sense what you can talk about with her. Hell, you may even find out that this particular woman is not someone you want to risk rejecting you.
2. Assuming you gathered all necessary information from step 1, approach with caution. Remember if she looks decent she has heard many opening lines before and you don't want her mind to do a "mental eye roll".
3. Do not touch her unless she touches you. Look, we already know you are interested - hell it is all over your face and we see the salivation dripping from your tongue. If we are interested in you, we will do little things like touch your leg or hand. You touching us, when we are clearly not of the same mind, is like the uninvited guest who comes to your home for Thanksgiving and eats the last piece of Grandma's Sweet Potato Pie. Bad manners!
4. Speak with sense. Talking about the male vs. female relationship is so played out and quite frankly lacks any form of originality. Instead speak to her about current events - there is a historical election in play right now. Now, here's a free tip - read the actual story below the headline news. Nothing frustrates us more than headline news readers. Typically, the headline news reader is the same one who quotes lyrics from their favorite rock, rap, hip hop song and weaves it into a conversation. Don't mistake laughter as inclusion. If we laugh at what you are saying, trust that we are usually laughing because we can't wait to tell our girlfriends about this "bonehead" who came with some sheepish Kanye West verse.
5. Stay focused on the conversation. Look, we know we may be cute in that black dress and those heels but please pay attention. Don't try to show how smart you are by making up silly phrases that only you can understand and regurgitate. If you are going to use phrases you feel will impress, learn how to enunciate; pronounce them correctly; and mentally validate its purpose within the present conversation. If she is speaking about the state of schools, then you interject with "Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale her infinite variety", she ends up looking at you perplexed and thinking how stupid you sound with her next step being a pleasant "Oh, I think I see Fred across the room but nice meeting you!" - Oh and Sherlock, there is no Fred.
If you are still not sure on how to approach that cutie, email me and I'll help you when I can. I want us all to succeed in life and love but some of you must be willing to learn about the type of woman you want to attract. Stay tuned to this "channel" for a more detailed breakdown on how to attract a particular type of woman or man.
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