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'Purity'
Michael,
Someone asked me... "How long has it been since you have had sex?"
I said; “A little over seven years”; He said; A women who had not had sex for that long would be like a virgin… Because “IT” had closed.
Can that be true?
-Tammy-
Brooklyn NY
Tammy,
That is a wonderful thought… being like a virgin once again, (or is it?)
Quite the pick up line…
In all reality your body is wonderful and resilient, it will adjust easily and quickly to this wonderful act of passion, regardless of any amount of time that may pass. So if you are worried about this let your fears dissolve.
Think of it this way; not having sex for long periods of time will make you much more excited, and when you finally do allow yourself this pleasure, your body will naturally lubricate with the excitement of the experience. Just make sure your lover takes his time, and you have plenty of foreplay before you make love.
On the flip side; here is something else to think about… Women who have had a lot of sex can feel just as tight as women that do not. It all depends on how they exercise the muscles they have within.
Using kegel exercises will tighten the pubococcygeus muscles of the pelvic floor,(muscles within your vagina) in addition to creating a more intensified release; with lots of practice… it can allow you to tighten those muscles at will… around your man, without causing you any pain, creating more pleasure for him also.
How wonderful is that? Being tight as a virgin, at will, without the pain and without the insecurities of it being the FIRST TIME.
The beauty of sensuality is learning; taking the time to learn your own body, experiencing each and every part of it, applying some self-love, flexing your muscles, (so to speak) and then sharing this wonderful EXPERIENCE with your lover!
Smiles,
-Michael Schuessler-
“Changing The World One Orgasm ~ At A Time”™
Michael Schuessler, author of the sex and sensuality classic, ‘The Holy G-rail', Please visit his web site, www.theholyg-rail.com to see all the different forms of Michaels works of creativity.
If you have any questions, in the sensual or sexual arena of life please E-mail me. (Use an alias if you'd like to keep your privacy).
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