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HI Michael,
I'm not sure if you get this question very much, but my husband wants to have sex using my "back door".
I'm usually up for anything, but I'm not sure I'm up for this one. It sounds like it might be painful..
Do many men like it this way? And most importantly do many ladies?? Any info would be greatly appreciated.
-Holly M.-
San Francisco
Holly,
Let me try to shed some light on the subject of anal penetration;
First to answer your questions; do men like it this way?
I would say there is a pretty large population of men who do, more so than those who do not.
Do women like it this way?
I’d probably say it is the reverse, some women do and they who do like it, like it very much, but I’d say that there is a larger population of woman do not.
Holly, I think it’s great that you are trying to please your lover and entertaining the idea of being more adventurous in the bedroom. But most importantly, you my lady need to feel comfortable with the idea before you attempt it.
Here is the reality: Anal penetration can be very enjoyable for all who participate in it; giving you the statistics probably will not help much.
If you are feeling frisky and really want to try it, you just need to take things Slow and Easy. Start with plenty of foreplay, use lots of lubrication and do not even try to put his member in it the first time!
Begin with his fingers… have him use his pinky finger first and then gradually move up in size, then if all is good and your enjoying yourself, try more than one finger, SLOWLY using lots of lube. Then you can graduate to small toys or to his member… Make sure you reach around and keep your hand on it, this way you control the situation and how much you want to take! Nothing like a rambunctious push, in the heat of orgasm to create pain and stop the whole process.
If you are uncomfortable because of the sanitary aspects of anal play, use condoms, even over his fingers.
It’s all good as long as you both want to share this type of passion and experimentation with each other, and it comes from a place of love.
Exploring each others bodies can be beautiful, very erotic and passionate in All-Ways, just remember to use common sense, and everything should be just fine.
Smiles,
-Michael Schuessler-
Changing The World One Orgasm ~ At A Time™
Michael Schuessler, author of the sex and sensuality classic, ‘The Holy G-rail', Please visit his web site, www.theholyg-rail.com to see all the different forms of Michaels works of creativity.
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