Steamy sex tips # 10: feel the heat!

November 4, 10:04 AMCharlotte Love and Marriage ExaminerCheryl Williams

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Our bodies are made to feel, and one of the best ways to improve your sex life is to learn to take advantage of certain sensations. For truly “steamy” sex, incorporate both heat and cold into your lovemaking.

In the movie 9 1/2 Weeks starring Mickey Rourke and Kim Bassinger, one of the hottest scenes in the movie involved the use of an ice cube. Rourke took an ice cube and ran it over her body slowly, licking off the water as it melted along the way. You could almost see the steam rising from her body and feel the passion rising.

You can use heat as well to help get your senses stimulated. Hot tubs, a hot shower, and warming massage oils can all get the juices flowing. Heat increases the blood flow, which makes the skin more receptive to stimulation.

The use of hot and cold simultaneously can make for a very arousing sensation. Apply cold to one part of the body while another part is feeling the heat.

The thing to remember is to have fun and experiment with what works best for you.