
Magnetize Your Beloved
With the popularity of The Secret, mainstream thinking is finally comfortable with the discussion of creating our own reality. For some this is still an incredulous situation. For many, delighted others, this represents the magic of the Universe. There are many a cliches about this, but the challenge really is in your own personal research. So, wherever you are on the continuum of believing or non-believing, living proof or longing to be proficient at this rather spiritual skill, there are many ways to develop an ability to magnetize your desires into manifestation.
Whether you are single or married, dating is a part of your life. As a single person, unless you have just sworn off all socializing, you know that making plans with someone is something which could be a joy or nightmare. It's not always easy to identify our subconcsious beliefs. Spending time in stillness or other meditaion can reveal your deeper states of consciousness as well as the core beliefs which actually motivate over 90% of your daily choices. For you, the key is to explore you daydreams about your perfect love & imagine them actually coming true. It's not rocket science. It's called the Art of Allowing! Allow yourself & others to be who they are and you are more than half way home!
If you are a married man or woman, you can cultivate a magic with your spouse which elevates both of you to a profound experience of heart-awakening. Romance is really about heart connections. If you are dating your wife, you may want to embody your masculine essence in a way which lets her know you've got her back, (and front, and sides, etc...lol!) If you're a woman, embodying your feminine joy is great for two very special reasons: 1) you get to really be who you are, underneath all social conditioning & explore your magical soul essence. This will make you fall in love with Life in general, which in turns makes you a more enjoyable goddess to be around. 2) you get to experience the delicious polarity between yourself & your beloved to activate a journey of the heart which awakens both of your aliveness!
The key in either or any of the above scenarios is to live as if you realize your Vision of Love is absolutely a plausible reality! Just watch the Magic unfold from there. Cultivate the essence of Love in your body, mind, heart, & soul...and enjoy your Life!