
Parents need
hobbies, especially a
hobby they are enthusiastic about, as it can be a great way to take a break from a busy week, grab an escape from the kids (we are allowed to do that) or even to share know-how with them. Your enthusiasm may actually inspire a fledgling hobbyist, too.
My husband, an otherwise avid golfer, has recently put his clubs aside to tackle something he has always wanted to do -
car shows. A fan of
Chevrolet, he restored a ’69 Corvette several years ago, and his current “baby” (yes, the kids and I have been replaced) is a jet black ’69 Camaro.
Not only do
car shows offer him the opportunity to take this pristine machine out of the garage, but the events have also offered him a chance to challenge himself. That is, my husband’s comfort zone is not exactly social gatherings, and the car show has been an opportunity for him to meet others who really just want to “talk shop” and he has met some neat folks who follow the same car show circuits.
For our family, it certainly helps that my husband knows how to fix a
flat tire in a matter of minutes or change the oil when I fail to mention the light has been on for a month, but it also means that he can show the kids what a shiny engine looks like and take them for a spin (no popsicles or muddy shoes allowed) in those perfect houndstooth seats.
The kids also think that their father is “pretty cool” when he brings home a trophy for “best in show.” He has accumulated a pretty admirable collection of plaques and trophies, which can’t be too shabby for the self-esteem. Truly, we all need a blue ribbon every now and then, and when no one is giving us a medal for fabulous parenting, why not get one for having a mint-condition car.
Car shows can also be family affairs and from Spring to Fall, the
Northern Virginia, Greater Washington D.C. and
Maryland area boasts a full line-up of terrific events, often paired with festivals, wine tastings, balloon rides and fairs. You don’t have to own a fancy car to join in the fun, and spectators are always welcome, especially at racing events like at
Old Dominion Speedway.
Who knows, Dad may even find inspiration to spruce up the family car or get the kids out to help him wash and wax. Then, whether it’s a classic car or a mini van, the whole family can flash to the past and head to an
old-fashioned drive-in or soft-serve
ice cream shop after dinner. Just don’t forget the
fuzzy dice.
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