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It is the unofficial start to summer and many are thinking about what to cook on the grill, but don’t let Memorial Day go by without pause and reflection with your children. It is a wonderful opportunity for so many discussions and learning moments, from history to civics to social studies and more.
Since the time my children were very young, I have tried to make a conscious effort to make clear the meaning behind this day. While war and death are not always easy subjects, especially with younger ones, I have found that the earlier we start to discuss these things, the more comfortable my children have become.
One activity I did with the children several times at very early ages was to take artificial flowers and write “Thank you” on the petals or leaves with permanent markers and bring them to a local cemetery. I spoke with a caretaker and we found the graves of soldiers that did not appear to receive any arrangements during the year, then placed these flowers there and said our own prayers of thanks. While it is always important to check with individual policies on flowers at cemeteries, many times you can leave artificial flowers in specific containers beginning in May.
Memorial Day is also a good time to discuss with your children about family and friends who are no longer living. My kids love to look through old photographs and hear stories about people who helped to shape their world. There are also many different activities in Minnesota that reflect the meaning behind Memorial Day, including parades, memorials, and festivals.
Fort Snelling will be hosting a celebration with a living time-line of soldiers and military life. If you have never been to the fort, take some time to visit and gain a deeper understanding about what life was like in our state many years ago – just don’t forget to plug your ears for the cannon fire!
Living history activities like these are important to preserving memories and understanding memorials. Without the past, we can not learn how to shape an amazing future. Homeschooling gives us that unparalleled opportunity to learn with our children and celebrate all aspects of life. Go create some new memories this weekend!