Character counts...

September 20, 2:11 AMMontgomery County College Prep ExaminerMarjorie Goode

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The past couple of weeks have been filled with a whirlwind of emotional fiascos, inappropriate behavior, rudeness, disrespect, and the list could go on indefinitely.  The sad part about the behaviors exhibited by Rep. Joe Wilson (R-SC), Serena Williams, Roger Federer, and Kanye West was the impression it bestowed upon a very vulnerable population.  

Young people rely on adults as being worthy role models.  No, we are not perfect but we should be more cognizant about our behavior in their presence, as well as in public.  Even if they are not with us at the time of the outburst, thanks to the immediacy of media and technology, teens will definitely hear about it sooner than we might like.  For those young people who are still trying to understand the difference between right and wrong, they are confused.  Or, they assume our behavior is the example to follow.

Adults must set good examples because teens must do the same.  I always give my freshman counselees a "heads up" about the importance of their character and behavior in high school.  I invite them to look into their future and consider how damaging a negative letter of recommendation can be for college or a job.  There are colleges that inquire about suspensions during high school.  Employers inquire about the same, as well as how responsible and trustworthy the prospective candidate has been in high school. 

Outstanding grades, rigorous classes, leadership, and community service can help in college admission; however, don't forget that character counts, too.  As my mother was famous for saying, "Use your head for something besides a hat rack."  In other words, think before you act.