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  • pondering young woman
    When should I tell new boyfriend about my financial struggles of the past?
    Dear Deborrah:I am so glad this service is available. I don't know who to ask for help on this.My problem: I bought a house a few years ago and due to the cost of furniture, mortgage and the need to buy a new car I have wound up with $9,000 in...
  • Couple Talking Together
    A successful marriage is a very personal thing
    Here is the simple truth – being in love, marrying your best friend, and living a long life together is a very personal thing. A successful marriage requires the sharing of “core values.” We share those core values with you today...
  • Open Mic Hosted by Cassandra Bautista
    Create a memorable date at Tribal Cafe's Sunday Open Mic Night
    Open Mic at Tribal Cafe is a fabulous way to celebrate an anniversary, go on an unique date, and a place for single people to meet other creative people. If you are tired of the usual dates that consist of dinner and a movie add some entertainment...
  • Does negative / positive conduct towards self and partner pose problems? (I)
    Does negative / positive conduct towards self and partner pose problems? (I)
    "In the same way, you wives, be in subjection to your husbands, so that if any are not obedient to the word, they may be won without a word through the conduct of their wives, because of having been eyewitnesses of your chaste conduct...
  • SF Banana Republic worth a love letter for its calm and beauty amid chaos
    SF Banana Republic worth a love letter for its calm and beauty amid chaos
    A week before Christmas in San Francisco and the streets were teeming with so many people it was possible only to creep down the sidewalk. Never mind you had errands to do, gifts to buy, people to meet, places to be. Yes, gridlock on the pavement....
  • Check out a concert in Vegas
    Surprise someone with tickets to a concert in Vegas before New Year's Eve
    With 2014 coming to an end there still some great concerts to check out before the year ends.Between Friday December 26th and Tuesday December 30th there are some great concerts happening in Las Vegas. If you really, really want to impress someone...
  • Catch a cheater at Christmastime: These clues give the cheater away
    Catch a cheater at Christmastime: These clues give the cheater away
    We don’t normally associate Christmas with infidelity, but it’s actually one of the best times of the year to get the goods on a cheating mate. As part of my 7th annual Christmas Infidelity Awareness Campaign, here are some special...
  • Christmas proposal
    Don't expect a ring just because it's Christmas
    Christmas time is a great time to be around your family and exchange gifts and enjoy some good food. But for those individuals in a relationship and ready to take that next step, it could be time for a proposal. This is the time of year when your...
  • nokidsever
    How do I find a woman who is 30+ and not interested in having children - EVER!
    Dear Deborrah:I'm 32 and was wondering, what is the percentage of women 30 and over who is child free, or has kids age 16 and above. I'm not the least bit interested in siring babies or playing stepdaddy to a kid, and thus am desperately...
  • Friends with Beneifts
    Friends with benefits - Yes or No?
    Periodically a question arises regarding a friends with benefits arrangement from someone who is single and has yet to find that "special person". They want to know whether or not they should consider such an arrangement. There really is...
  • Merry Christmas honey
    A holiday marriage
    What is the most important thing about Christmas? Some might say the tree, the gifts or visiting family. But what if you were forced to try and enjoy Christmas without the gifts, tree and decorations. Could you and your spouse spend the time...
  • The toast, defined
    Types of speeches: The toast
    When friends and family are gathered together over a good meal and wine, a toast is often offered. But is a standard "To …" or one that truly inspires those gathered to raise their glasses? If you would like to offer an effective...
  • What men don’t know about anatomy, but should: yours and theirs
    What men don’t know about anatomy, but should: yours and theirs
    Funny how things come together. I came across two seemingly unrelated articles. One was a video posted on Identities.Mic titled ‘We asked men to draw vaginas to prove a point’. The other was on a blog called Divine Pollination (dot com...
  • Christmas couple
    Managing the holiday dinner while in the friend zone
    During Christmas, along with Valentine’s Day, emotions can become quite confusing for people still in the “friend” stage of dating. A kind gesture from someone that you’ve been dating can be misconstrued as something...
  • Jodi Arias will get a video call for Christmas, Juan Martinez fights back
    Jodi Arias will get a video call for Christmas, Juan Martinez fights back
    The retrial of the penalty phase of the Jodi Arias trial has wrapped for the holiday season, however Jodi Arias supporters are still holding hope that one day their friend Jodi Arias will be free. That is unlikely considering she has already been...