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  • Flower Bouquet
    Tips for a successful Valentine’s Day
    With February 14th only two weeks away, many are finding themselves in a sudden panic over V-day protocol. If you are nervous, or simply want to avoid a Valentine’s Day disaster, read these tips for survival.Plan ahead. And if that isn&rsquo...
  • What is Ageism and is it Something that Young People Should be Aware of too?
    What is Ageism and is it Something that Young People Should Also be Aware of?
    Ageism definition: prejudice or discrimination on the grounds of a person’s age.Ageism is something I have been aware of for many years in the dating arena & from comments on my advice column, but it is also alive and well in the work...
  • becoming whole
    Growing and maturing beyond resentment Part 2
    Growing and maturing beyond resentment Part 2Resentment leaves an endless void that one attempts to fill with things that are usually unhealthy for them. You avoid confronting what is bothering you. There is a way out of this.Marriage is the...
  • See the cast of 'Grief' 22 years later
    See the cast and crew of ‘Grief’ 22 years later
    A special showing of the 1993 gay off-beat comedy “Grief” will be bringing out the cast and director of the film by the UCLA Film & Television Archive, and Outfest on Saturday night, Jan. 31.The writer and director of the movie is...
  • A Secret Safe to Tell
    Author Naomi Hunter reaches out to children of sexual abuse
    Australian author Naomi Hunter is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. Not only was she abused by a neighbor but she endured years of abuse from a family member, in fact her very own brother. It is estimated that approximately 15% of all people...
  • How to get over being ghosted in the world of dating
    How to get over being ghosted in the dating world
    The behavior is nothing new, but the love ‘em and leave ‘em mentality now has a popular new term: ghosting. In modern times, “ghosting” refers to the practice of dating someone and dropping them without warning and without...
  • Jodi Arias: Magic underwear, jury questions, and star State witness sink defense
    Jodi Arias: Magic underwear, jury questions, and star State witness sink defense
    It's been another roller coaster week in Maricopa County Superior Court out of Phoenix, Arizona for the retrial of the sentencing phase of the Jodi Arias trial. In a nutshell, after Dr. Geffner and his seemingly four month filibuster of paper...
  • Ring Exchange
    Preventing emotional divorce
    Now that the New Year is gaining steam, and we have made our various New Year’s resolutions, have you taken a good look at your relationship? It may be time to check in with your partner and make a few changes, or relationship resolutions,...
  • Divorcing a Narcissist
    Divorcing a Narcissist : Advice from the Battlefield
    There are a few experiences in life that can leave one feeling dazed and confused. Waking up from surgery after heavy anesthesia can be found at the top of that list, along with divorcing a narcissist. While the medically induced fog from surgery...
  • The Rucker Sisters
    New Realty TV Train Wreck – Love Thy Sister on WETV
    WETV premiered more ratchet television with their new unscripted series LOVE THY SISTER on January 8th. Meet Ione, Ruby, and Ellen Rucker, the Rucker sisters from South Carolina, whose previews purported to tout southern gentility, but what we...
  • It's not that obvious you're nervous
    Isn't it obvious I'm nervous?
    One of the causes of stage fright is the fear that the audience can tell that you're nervous. This causes a budding Long Beach speaker to become hyper aware of their nervous symptoms and unwittingly amplify them. However, from the audience'...
  • Are you a sex addict?
    Sexual addiction is not about sex
    What is sexual addiction?When you hear the term “sex addict” you may roll your eyes thinking, Here’s another antisocial behavior rationalized by a medical diagnosis. For starters, there is no clinical diagnosis for sexual...
  • Zann Cannon Goff with strength of an unusual childhood sinks roots all over SF
    Zann Cannon Goff with strength of an unusual childhood sinks roots all over SF
    Sometimes the ingredients just have to simmer ‘til done. San Francisco residential and public-space landscaper Zann Cannon Goff , whose first word was “flower,” took a long journey through winding, and yes, un-landscaped, terrain...
  • R&B DIVA, Monifah Carter
    Confessions of An R&B Diva: Sexy Songstress Monifah Carter Bares All
    Monifah set the music world on fire in the 90’s, and her music continues to have a tremendous impact on R&B music fans around the world. There’s no question that no one brings it quite like Monifah. Her seductive, soulful voice can...
  • Karma
    Relationships & Karma
    "What goes around comes around" is exactly what it means. Karma it's life's way of showing fate. This does happen in everyday life situations; happiness, sadness, bitterness, betrayal etc. etc. It also DOES include what you do in...