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  • What do you see when you look at me?
    Don't be afraid for someone to see you
    Are you single and looking to meet someone?In a persons effort to meet someone, what are they actually projecting when someone who might be interested looks at them? Sometimes a looking into one's eyes is worth a thousand words.As people go...
  • sexual addiction
    Addicted to Sex
    The desire to express our sexuality is a natural part of life. And to find pleasure and fulfillment in expressing our sexuality is ok. However, if you are engrossed with sexual thoughts, feelings or behaviors that are causing significant distress...
  • Broken Hearted
    How to stop the pain of a brokenhearted girl?
    Not long ago a young lady asked the question: How to stop the pain of a brokenhearted girl?As cliché as it may sound: "Only time can heal a broken heart."Ideally one would have the support of friends and family to help them through the...
  • jealous mother
    Dating advice: my boyfriend's mother is angry that he wrote me and not her
    Dear Deborrah:I started dating my boyfriend, and six weeks later he went off to bootcamp. As soon as his mom got his address, she sent it to me (so far that I know). So I send him a letter that very same day.Turns out I was the FIRST and only...
  • Reggie Bullock
    Reggie Bullock of NBA Clippers mourns loss of transgender sibling
    Reggie Bullock of the NBA Clippers is now mourning the loss of his sibling. Back in July of 2014 his sibling passed away. The body of his transgender sibling Mia Henderson was found in an alley on Wednesday morning. Mia was born as a male named...
  • Duchess Kate, Military Spouse
    Duchess Kate, Military Spouse
    You're not the owner of glittering tiaras. You haven't married or given birth to anyone in line to the British throne. So what do you have in common with Duchess Kate?You're a military family. You face the struggles that come with...
  • Dating a virgin
    The positives to dating a female virgin
    Sexual attraction plays a major part in dating. Some people gauge their interest by whether they can look at a person within the first few minutes and want to have sex with them. Sex appeal is a complementary driving force. In this society, so...
  • Obesity
    14 things to think about before you have weight loss surgery
    If you're like most people, the battle of the bulge seems endless. Weight loss or bariatric surgeries like the lap band and gastric bypass offer results that seem miraculous. People talk about their sex lives improving and dating more than...
  • Jodi Arias trial day three, meet the new jury, and Jodi's not so new boyfriend
    Jodi Arias trial day three, meet the new jury, and Jodi's not so new boyfriend
    It was day three today in the retrial of the penalty phase of the State of Arizona versus Jodi Arias, trial for the murder of Travis Alexander and one that was not without drama. In yesterday's testimony in Maricopa County Superior Court...
  • Master the art of vocal variety
    The power of vocal variety
    Natural conversation is a harmony of fluid sounds going up and down, fast and slow, moving to the natural rhythm of the speaker. When you are presenting at the front of the room or from the stage, you also need to follow a natural rhythm of vocal...
  • Casualties of Casual Sex
    Casualties of Casual Sex
    This scenario can be played out many ways but it typically goes: Girl meets guy. Guy meets girl. They "hook up" for a sexual encounter. Guy never calls girl again, unless he wants to hook up. Girl feels abandoned and used. This is just...
  • Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There is no room for the word Ugly
    Lifestyle Advice - Ban the Four Letter Word "Ugly"!
    This article may become a bit of a rant but I just can’t ignore talking about this anymore. What gives anyone the right to call someone “Ugly?” This four letter word is the worst one of the bunch and should be considered the...
  • Passion and romance declines in long term relationship
    Romance and passion decline in gay relationships: part 1
    Gay men in long term relationships often experience a decline in romance and passion after the honeymoon phase.The honeymoon phase is that period of euphoria in a new relationship. It starts when you first meet each other and begin dating. You can...
  • Jodi Arias trial day two, another juror out and the return of Dr. Horn
    Jodi Arias trial day two, another juror out and the return of Dr. Horn
    The case of the State of Arizona versus Jodi Arias, trial for the murder of Travis Alexander that occurred in 2008 is one that has captivated international attention. One of the reasons for this rests on the notion that this is a gruesome crime...
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    Asked about children early on - does it mean you are long-term material?
    Dear Deborrah:If you are asked early on in the dating relationship if you want children, is this always an indication that you are being considered for the long-term? I would like to get married and be a father.Signed,HopefulDear Hopeful:Hold your...