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  • Bikini live @ Bardot Thursday, February 24, 2011
    Bikini stripped live at Bardot
    Erotic live chant with band Bikini in town on stage at midnight at Bardotin Miami, Thursday, February 24, 2011. Here is a sneak peak to their diamond hitting light musical drop:Layers upon layers, Bikini dismantling complex sound reinventing its...
  • Single and Looking for Relationship
    It's another Saturday night - Do you have a date?
    Remember Sam Cooke? His song It's Another Saturday Night talks about the loneliness of a Saturday night without 'somebody'. The weekends can feel like such a trap for single men and women. It seems like everyone else has a date and you...
  • frustrated
    Fake orgasms. Do they really help?
    How many times have you faked an orgasm? Most of us ladies have done it on numerous occasions, and you know most times the guys don’t even know it, or worse don’t even care. Some have many reasons why they fake orgasms. They were tired...
  • Love Me. Not the idea of me.
    Make it count beyond the Valentine's Day romance
    Since the holidays are over and Chicago is experiencing sunshine and a (slight) heat wave, now is the perfect time to shine some light on your love life and make each moment count. Dust off all those new years resolutions you’ve somehow...
  • Trouble Starting a Relationship?
    Trouble starting a relationship?
    What are you supposed to do in a relationship? I’ve never been in one so when I try imagining myself in one, it’s super weird because I wouldn’t know how to act, you know? What are you supposed to do before you start the actual...
  • Don't get too comfortable
    Love: Your greatest habit?
    We all know the “comfortable” couple. Look around any Chicago bar or restaurant and I’d bet big bucks that more than half of the couples there are more comfortable with each other than they are in love. (Ok, maybe not “big...
  • A kiss
    It begins with a kiss
    There is much to be said about a kiss. That first brush of lips upon lips. The first touch of flesh up on flesh. It’s a gentle pressure at first like a butterflies wings beating softly in the warm summer breeze. The touch is tentative and...
  • roses
    Valentine's is the best time of year to tell if you lover is cheating on you
    Tis’ the season of candy, flowers, romantic meals and cheating.Does your spouse or significant other suddenly have plans to be away from home anytime within the next week….a convention or out of town meeting perhaps?That is just one...
  • Wise relationship advisors
    An Unlikely Relationship Advisor
    As the annual "Day of Hearts" approaches, my romantic notions of love and affection mingle with the blunt words of so many people I know: “I hate Valentine’s Day.” I get it. The constant commercialism can be a turn-off...
  • The Search for Mr. Right, Part 3 of 3
    The Search for Mr. Right, Part 3 of 3
    How Do I Get Him? Cupid, Am I the Target or the Arrow?In understanding relationships, how they start, how they work and how they are sustained, one thing is most apparent: What happens to you starts with you. Some call it karma, some just say, ...
  • Role reversal
    New study shows men want commitment, women want independence
    If you thought most men were only interested in sex and short-term flings, you are mistaken. According to a comprehensive study on singles released in time for Valentine’s Day, men fall in love more quickly and are more likely to want...
  • The Lady of Shalott.
    The Horror of Horrible Love.
    I can think of a hundred thousand fatal maladies these awful feelings rudely suggest I might have. Coronary thrombosis. Ebola. Leukemia Myocardial infarction. Brain tumor. Brain tumor. Hypothermia. Desolation. Utter, utter, utter heartbreak. Yet...
  • Noodle
    Noodles Don't Break
    Ever heard the phrase ‘A true friend is a gift you give yourself?’ While it may be a cliché, it is also completely valid, both in simplicity and truth. Friends may come and go, but a true friend is the one who stays. Thousands of people will cross...
  • Loving You Is All I'm Meant To Do.
    American Idol's Chris Medina teaches us to love against all odds.
    Every time I see someone from Chicago make it to the Hollywood round of American Idol, I cheer and secretly jump up and down in my living room, but I know I’m not the only one! It’s probably because a part of myself wishes that I was...
  • Laverne & Shirley
    One million jobs
    For one long-ago summer, I worked for a tea factory in some totally out-of-the-way neighborhood in Seattle. This was during my "buck the system, screw the office" phase, a phase whose vision continues to barge right into my consciousness...