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  • Stilettos and Sexual Intimacy
    Dating Rules: When is the right time for sexual intimacy?
    Intimacy. It’s a natural need, but when is it okay for a woman to say yes to physical intimacy? The answer is all about how she feels.A woman can never move a relationship along with a man purely with sex - it just doesn’t work. Sex...
  • The Kiss
    The Attachment Dilemma
    “Love isn't something natural. Rather it requires discipline, concentration, patience, faith, and the overcoming of narcissism. It isn't a feeling, it is a practice.”― Erich Fromm, The Art of LovingThe quandary of relational...
  • Secret Life - A Devotion
    Secret Life - A Devotion
    Matthew 13:11-12 (NLT)He replied, “You are permitted to understand the secrets of the Kingdom of Heaven, but others are not. To those who listen to my teaching, more understanding will be given, and they will have an abundance of knowledge....
  • Love & Human Remains
    Love & Human Remains : A Portrait of Eroticized Rage
    The torment of love can transform people into wretched monsters. --Mathias MalzieuI recently had the pleasure of attending a brilliantly performed off-broadway production of Brad Fraser's compelling Love & Human Remains at Playwrights...
  • So you want real intimacy it requires self-disclosure and self-confronting
    So you want real intimacy it requires self-disclosure and self-confronting
    For most people they need to know in advance they will be accepted by the other person. In order to be sexually expressive and open psychologically means they want to feel safe, they want to feel comfortable and the possibility of rejection will...
  • Communication imoroves emotional wellness!
    Improve couples communication with the Listening Door exercise!
    He Wishes for the Cloths of Heaven by William Butler YeatsHad I the heaven's embroidered cloths,Enwrought with golden and silver lightThe blue and the dim and the dark clothsOf night and light and the half-light,I would spread the cloths under...
  • The Quest for Love
    The Erosion of Intimacy in a World of Technology
    To love rightly is to love what is orderly and beautiful in an educated and disciplined way. PlatoCall me 'old-fashioned', but the banality of dating habits I hear about from male and female clients in their 20's and 30's makes me...
  • My Friend - A Devotion
    My Friend - A Devotion
    Romans 5:9-11 (NLT)And since we have been made right in God’s sight by the blood of Christ, he will certainly save us from God’s condemnation. For since our friendship with God was restored by the death of his Son while we were still...
  • The human body
    Take the 6 Week Challenge of More Intimate Sex in Marriage
    Can one imagine a marriage filled with passion, love, friendship, intimacy, sex, vigor, vitality? Take the 6 week challenge!Couples have deeper intimacy in their relationship, passion and fun, through intimacy counseling!This is the sex education...
  • Orgasmic Meditation
    Orgasmic Meditation
    Laughs and orgasms are some of life’s greatest joys. They affect our overall well-being and give us a sense of joy and contentment. Hopefully you get to experience both of these joys often, but it’s no secret that women struggle...
  • Intimate moment
    Restoring Intimacy in Relationship
    One of the greatest treasures of relationship is intimacy. Why, then, does intimacy seem to be such a fickle friend, so elusive and fragile? And why is it often so hard to re-create once it’s fled?In this exclusive, never-published paper, we...
  • Circles Program II
    Part II: Circles program
    See http://www.examiner.com/review/part-i-circles-program for part I of this reviewAs I have said, I reviewed the entire program alone. My first impression was that it was dated and slow. Then, I started to go through the DVDs and discovered that...
  • Starving a Spouse from Intimate Sex can Destroy a Marriage
    Starving a Spouse from Intimate Sex can Destroy a Marriage
    Quality of intimate sex that leads to orgasm far out weights how many times a person just has sex to do it!Having sex with a spouse for the sake of just doing it, as a duty, a chore or for a quick release, in a long term monogamous marriage will...
  • Hot Between the Sheets
    Is Sex Really Considered Exercise?
    It doesn’t take a scientist to tell you that sex can be a heart-pumping, sweat-drenched workout. But how much of a workout are you and your partner actually getting? And how many calories are being burned during each session?According to a...
  • Come Closer - A Devotion
    Come Closer - A Devotion
    Revelation 2:4-5 (NLT)“But I have this complaint against you. You don’t love me or each other as you did at first! Look how far you have fallen! Turn back to me and do the works you did at first. If you don’t repent, I will come...